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To take doughnuts to a job interview?

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lucyellenmum · 27/10/2012 10:56

That would be interview suicide wouldn't it???

Only i have been invited for an interview, its an admin position in an engineering company. When i spoke to the guy he was one of the types that you could tell was totally out of his comfort zone with interviewing. I suspect he was the manager and not the personell manager if you see what i mean. This surprised me as its a big company.

Anyway, when I asked if i should bring anything (im used to being asked for qualifications, id etc - it always causes me a problem as i have no valid passport and i dont have a driving license), he just flapped a bit and said, "ah no, just bring some ice creams for the girls!" My initial thoughts spun between, hmmm, he sounds like he might be ok, or he could be a sexist twunt. So i blustered too and said, don't be mad its winter, i'll bring doughnuts instead. It was ended tht i should just bring a smile!!! Hmm

So what if i did actually take the doughnuts? would he think i was
a) barking mad
b) a sychophant
c) quirky with a sense of humour

A friend of mine who is a manager in an engineering company said to me "i hope you ARE going to take the doughnuts" and my DP said "don't be ridiculous"

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onemorechoccybiccy · 27/10/2012 18:11

No, it is totally ridiculous and unprofessional.

Take them in on the first Friday after starting the job. Smile

OhDearSpareHeadTwo · 27/10/2012 18:20

I dunno. When I got the position I currently have they told me what really made me stand out from teh other candidates was my last comment:
"I promise to bring in lots of homemade cakes"

It's a gamble - although if they are only interviewing you it seems pretty much a dead set anyway unless you fuck it up royally

FaffTastic · 27/10/2012 18:28

That's different and acceptable Oh Dear - you didn't actually bring a homemade cake with you to the interview Grin

lucyellenmum · 27/10/2012 21:49

saggy, i think that if i thought i was only being interviewed by the guy who i spoke to on the phone id risk it and take the doughnuts and he might see the funny side, but I am erring on the side of common sense. Which to be fair was my thoughts too. I only gave it a second thought when my friend said to me, i hope you are going to take them now!!

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MorrisZapp · 27/10/2012 22:01

Yup, common sense has to win this one. Good luck!

CharminglyOdd · 27/10/2012 22:03

I'd take them. But it depends how desperate you are - it could totally go either way (as others have said) but if you want to work somewhere that would love it if you brought them and were a bit quirky then why not test the waters? You are interviewing them too...

Wheresmypopcorn · 27/10/2012 23:27

No

Boomerwang · 28/10/2012 05:13

morris this is an instance where common sense does not apply.

HoratiaWinWOOHOOHOOHOOd · 28/10/2012 08:11

I offered to bring my interviewer a bottle of Scotch to a second interview if there was one - in my defence it was in the middle of a conversation about Scotland and not a totally blatant bribe.

I got the second interview; they didn't interview anyone else; I didn't take the scotch; I got the job.

True story.

GlaikitFizzog · 01/11/2012 19:15

Lucyellen? How did it go? Donuts or not!!

lucyellenmum · 01/11/2012 22:10

I didn't take the doughnuts, neither did i wear a tantalizingly low cut blouse Grin

I have a second interview next week sometime, day to be confirmed.

The guy who interviewed me was barking, the lady however was quite conservative so i think sensible boring was the way to play it.

Fingers crossed

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GlaikitFizzog · 01/11/2012 22:11

Fingers crossed!!

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