My concern is more about the sheer amount of toys my kids have. If I go back to when I was a kid, I remember the toys from my childhood. I remember the amount of games that were without toys, outside with friends. The amount we had to improvise and invent with sheets, and pegs, and bits of wood etc. I think the way we play has changed so dramatically over the last two generations it must be affecting how we are socially and every other way. my DS got a den building kit the other week for his birthday, which was lovely, but that's what a sheet is, surely? All he had to do was put it up, so he had far less fun than with all the sofa cushions!
This Christmas I am struggling to come up with anything they would value. It worries me that it's so easy for them to choose the options where the toys has done the work, and the playing can be a bit mindless. The toy should be a 'sidekick' to the play, not the centre of it, most of the time at least.
Re wooden versus plastic, we have both. Nothing (not many) electronic and noisy though. I try to look at the play value, ie how open ended the toy is. Our favourite toys right now are brio, Lego, Quadrilla, art stuff, clay, slack line, treepee, bikes, wooden castles with plastic animals and dragons, making Harry potter wands.
Agree with posters who point out obvious diff between quality of makes of wooden toys. I worked in toy shop selling mainly wooden toys, and the American ones (M&D) are rubbish. Their ethical policies are awful, both from an environmental and humanitarian point of view, and the safety standards in American toys are not as high as with European manufacture. They are pulled up regularly for lead content in their Chinese manufactured painted wooden toys. They break easily, and have been poorly designed. But parents see they are wood, and buy them anyway. German made toys, metal, wood or plastic, are often the best designed and made. I'd much rather my kids had a few good things than lots of things they don't value. (and have to find places for in our tiny house). They don't need it, and I don't know why we all buy them so much of it, but it's the way it is. Roll on Christmas!