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AIBU?

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To think that this level of horror was unacceptable at a children's Halloween event?

95 replies

FlamingoBingo · 23/10/2012 16:26

We have just returned from what is marketed as:

an event that is "...perfect for the whole family" with an "undercover, interactive [treasure] hunt" that "children will love exploring".

There is an evening thing at this place, which specifies that it is too frightening for under twelves, but the daytime is for EVERYONE, as they state in every bit of marketing material they create.

We wandered into the treasure hunt with our four children aged between 4 and 9, with no one suggesting it might be a bit too scary for the youngest ones (hell, even the oldest ones!). We were waved in cheerily in fact. And the sign outside proclaimed that it was £1.50 per child, adults free. Maybe I'm being naive but that suggests to me that this whole treasure hunt is aimed at children - would you think that too?

In that case, am I being peculiarly precious to be absolutely fucking horrified at (along with the expected spooky skeletons, witches and ghosts and some other too vile things that I can't remember right now):

  • A toilet block with old, spider-webby toilets, dripping with blood - and I mean dripping. I am not exaggerating.
  • a corpse covered in blood lying in a bath

Yes, it was very well done, but this is not, IMO, OK for children to be exposed to. Films with this stuff in are rated 18, and this was scarier, IMO, as it was more real. In fact, forget the scare factor, this was what I would describe as violent horror with graphic gore. This was very, very well done. I was spooked by it!

But to adults nowadays really think it's OK for children to see things like this? I hardly wrap my children up in cotton wool, but I am really angry my children have seen this. My 7 year old, who is normally really brave, and loves scary films (that are aimed at under 12s), started crying and saying 'I don't like this', even before we got to the corpse.

So, AIBU? I want to check before I write stinking reviews all over the place.

OP posts:
CalamityKate · 24/10/2012 00:54

We did Scaresville last year and my friend was so spooked by the Yeti in the woods that she leapt sideways, toppled over the guide wire next to the path and landed in a heap.

Even the Yeti was laughing. Which was naughty really, as it's difficult to be frightened of a chuckling Yeti. He should have stayed in character. Bad Yeti

Pandemoniaa · 24/10/2012 01:06

Having read their webpage, it all comes across as a rather jolly experience somehow and not any precursor to corpses in baths. So I would probably have expected the more traditional, spooky skeleton, pumpkin and witchy stuff. Which I why I don't think the OP is being U in her surprise at what was on offer.

I like a zombie apocalypse as much as the next person. But I'm not sure I'd assume young children are quite as up for it.

midseasonsale · 24/10/2012 01:10

I woldn't expose my kids to such horror. Bats, mild witches, pumpkins etc are ok

perfectstorm · 24/10/2012 01:16

God, I'm so grateful you warned me. I live not that far away and my 4 year old would be frigging petrified by that.

perfectstorm · 24/10/2012 01:33

The website FAQ:

What is Frightmare?

Frightmare is the name for the Halloween Festival held at Over Farm Market. Our daytime events are child friendly and we encourage all the family to come along and enjoy the fun and soak up the atmosphere, we don?t scare during the day. However, during the evening our three scare attractions come alive and we don?t recommend children under 12 attend the evening event.

How scary is it?

During the day all our events are child friendly.

Bloody corpses in baths are not suitable for all ages. Not without any warning. Some would be fine - others would freak.

PuffPants · 24/10/2012 03:26

Oh god, this stuff is horrid. I don't get Hallowe'en at all, never did, even as a child. It's all so creepy! Why does the idea of dying a violent death thrill people?! Confused

shesariver · 24/10/2012 10:38

Your event sounds more like Seasonal Saw, the Experience! [hgrin]

I love Halloween - so jealous of all these events which seem to be in England - I live in Scotland, wonder if there is anything similar?

bringbacksideburns · 24/10/2012 10:44

Did your kids enjoy it though?
I don't think i would have gone in with the 4 year old.
I wouldn't even go in the York Dungeon, i had to walk round for an hour with dd in December, finding Coffee Shops to sit in. But then i'm a wuss and can't watch Horror films.

My son loves The Walking Dead. He can happily sit and watch it whilst eating at the same time. I can't even stand the sound effects.

TeeBee · 24/10/2012 10:53

I took my two DSs to a halloween farm day too. There was a haunted castle with staff wondering around trying to scare people. One jumped out at my eldest DS (was 7 at the time) and he crapped himself and clung onto me for dear life. The same person then made the mistake of jumping out at my 5 year old who roared straight back in his face and gave him the biggest boot to the shin I've ever witnessed. I helped by pissing myself laughing. Now we just hide behind DS2.

Mrsjay · 24/10/2012 11:02

I would have been scared I hate things like that Blush I don't think you are being U if it was as scary as you said but i am a wuss

Woozley · 24/10/2012 11:23

I am generally quite freaked out by people "acting amongst the general public". On a stage, in a film - fine. Being a jolly jester or clown at a theme park = weird.

RubyCreakingGates · 24/10/2012 12:09

Four pages of Halloween outrage and not a single [hangry] !
I'm [hshock] ed

[hwink]

OK, I've had enough fun with the smileys now.

Mrsjay · 24/10/2012 12:11

OH I didnt even notice [hgrin]

RubyCreakingGates · 24/10/2012 12:16

Woozly.. I'm a re-enactor! You'd be freaked by me. Some of my bestest friends are currently doing this www.scaresville.co.uk/ You'd be really spooked by them [hsmile]

SchrodingersMew · 24/10/2012 13:28

I didn't even notice the halloween smileys! [hgrin] Wooo!

solidgoldbrass · 24/10/2012 14:11

Sounds to me like they didn't properly callibrate the age range: some 8/9 year olds would have loved that because some are morbid little sods (I was one), other 12 year olds would have freaked.

I think whoever said: check it out yourself first, had the right idea. You know your own DC.

Mrsjay · 24/10/2012 14:13

DD1 watched the waking dead and I am usually on the computer cringing scared at the noises

ThatBintAgain · 24/10/2012 14:15

YANBU and what Flimflammery said on page 1.

NeatFreak · 25/10/2012 19:02

Just thought I'd mention that I went there today and it was NOT scary! However, there was no corpse in the bath (it was empty) and the toilets were just dirty... dds found it funny.

Maybe they've been on mumsnet...

monkeyfacegrace · 25/10/2012 19:59

I went today too! They had to remove the corpse from the bath as someone complained [hhmm]

Twas very, very tame.

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