Friend's house for her birthday. Several of us although her husband had to work, and lunch cooked by one of us, who also happens to be an ex bf of mine. He fancies himself as a foodie/chef. She disappeared for a while and I went to find her in kitchen - she was talking to the cook -as I wanted to give her her pressie. Ex told me to fuck off as he needed kitchen to himself and when I didn't, mainly due to astonishment, he started screaming fuck off over and over and physically pushed me through door. Friend cowered with her back to us. Guests in other room were not impressed but didn't see what he did, only heard and there was lots of nervous laughter ....and the atmosphere never recovered, oddly enough.
Why didn't I walk out? Didn't want to make my friend feel bad. I must have been mad. She rang days later to apologise for this, and said she'd told him off. I told other mutual friends who are now not talking to him, and he resents this and is badmouthing me as he feels he was justified because I was in his way. In fact I was yards away from him and the stove. Although he is the evil doer here (always had a bad temper but never abused me before) I feel very angry with my woman friend for not throwing him out, and I don't really wanna go back to her house again. He's been there since, old friend of the family, open arms etc. They were friends before I came along, perhaps she feels more loyal to him.
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nonkybonk · 23/10/2012 01:58
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