Ex and I are sorting contact for the half terms, xmas etc. We are in the middle of a pretty nasty dispute at the min and are currently corresponding through solicitors, but I still need to confirm dates etc... with him briefly. He always does the picks ups and drop offs, and has never disputed this even though he makes snidy remarks. He has her twice a week.
Tonight he responded to the email ( two days after I sent it) confirming his dates, but out on the end of it ' as agreed in our telephone call on thursday, you will come to collect dd from me at xxxx time.
I agreed to nothing of the sort and it simply did not come up in this conversation. He lives 17 miles away, which isn't a long way away especially and have collected her loads of times before, but what I resent here is being told to do it in this way and telling a blatant lie like this. He worded it in such a way that I have to be careful with my response.
Do I ignore that and just collect her, or stand up to him? I don't want any more arguments are things are already fragile. Also, I suspect if I don't collect her then he will just keep her. It feels like bullying though, to put words in my mouth like this. AIBU?