About online dating on POF?

[MoreFish]

Hi, I have been seeing a guy I met online. Been on a few dates, quite intense really.
Said we like each other.
He said he's never met anyone online before etc and thinks I'm lovely. Seems vvvv genuine.
I however, have hidden my profile from view now.
I keep checking to see If he has his, and he hasnt and is online now.
AIBU to think he shouldn't be online or am I jumping the gun?

Around 3 weeks

Thanks SoleSource - I've not heard of them.

A few dates doesn't a relationship make

As for the terrible press POF gets, I've been on other paying ones and still been contacted by a load of arses and felt far more aggrieved having to pay for it.

I read The Rules. They are a load of crap and apply much more to the American style of dating. However - I did agree with the general sentiment which is to be your own person and don't waste time on anyone who isn't treating you well.

My two penneth is that if I was you, I wouldn't be happy he is online either. It would make me feel crap. I am not sure what you can do about it at this early stage though. Have a conversation re exclusivity and see what he says?

Thank you spookie, made me feel a bit not good enough IFYSWIM

The thing is pof is free so yes you will get all sorts but there's more to choose from !