This is what I have done but in temper.
I introduced my friend (A) to another friend of mine (B) last year. Their daughters (age 13) became friends in the last month.
I also have a DD the same age who has been friends with both of the girls for a few years.
The other two girls starting ignoring mine, even at a recent party my DD said they refused to speak to her all night. Mean girl stuff such as standing staring at her and whispering.
I spoke to both my friends, A & B. They spoke to their DD's who denied it.
I then received by accident a text message from B which was meant for A laughing about the incident, they'd been joking about it. It read as though both my friends were actively involved in the incident.
I told A who is a friend of longer standing and we are supposedly close that I was upset to receive this and rather than her explain and apologise she started attacking my DD and that she's jealous of their girls friendship.
She listed stuff from primary school regarding friendship issues involving her DD, mine and various other names and said any problems are my DD's making.
She admitted that she's been talking about me and DD to B and said I would have done the same. This I would never do and shocked she would think this is ok.
She was really nasty and venemous which I have never seen before. She thinks it's ok that B told the girls to ignore my DD even though last week she denied they were ignoring her.
I've had loads of text, ( many I have not read but husband has) attacking my DD over stuff at primary when the girls fell out.
I told her to F off. She said it's a shame to ruin a frienship. Is she crazy or am I not seeing something?
Thanks