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To do the sort of lunches I'd eat for my three year old DD?

68 replies

KellyElly · 06/10/2012 21:19

I do things like sandwiches (ham and cucumber), cheese on toast, beans on toast, scrambled egg on toast, pasta and pesto or cheesey pitta bread. I pretty much alternate these. Is this a cop out? Should I be providing a more 'balanced' lunch veg etc?

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KellyElly · 06/10/2012 22:17

Softly your post scared me. You sound like you should be on masterchef :) I know my limitations loool. If I try and throw something together the recipient would throw up. I just don't have the skills. I wnat you to cook for me!!

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WorraLiberty · 06/10/2012 22:18

Lordy you can't live without a pyrex dish!

Get thee to the supermarket and buy one Grin

DoMeDon · 06/10/2012 22:20

Any casserole dish - any large round oven proof cooking dish. Pyrex is the glass type looking ones. God! That is harder to explain than I thought it would be Grin

Cottage pie - Cook potatos for mash. Fry off mince till brown, then some diced onion till cooked, add some frozen mixed veg (for ease or fresh veg when you feel confident), tomato puree, worcester sauce, soy sauce and beef bovril, mixed herbs if you fancy, stir about, add tin of tomatos. Simmer till tasty. Put in casserole dish and top with mash. Cook in oven for about 30 mins on 180. Can top with grated cheese and sliced tomato before putting in oven if you like cheesy mash.

DoMeDon · 06/10/2012 22:26

Bacon and mushrrom pasta is a hit here too. Boil pasta shapes. Fry bacon and mushrooms, stir in frozen chopped basil and olive oil. When cooked mix into cooked pasta shapes with another dash of olive oil and add black pepper.

Easy stir fry. Cook some rice or noodles. Chop up chicken breast (or turkey breast to be cheaper) and cook through, add pack of value stir fry veg and dash of chinese 5 spice (from jar in supermarket). When cooked mix in rice/noodles and some soy sauce.

KellyElly · 06/10/2012 22:32

Thanks DoMe you are a star. They sound cheap and doable!

Worra pyrex was too complicated. DoMe the glass dish I get lol :) Don't baffle me with technical chef names ha ha. I barely looked after myself b4 DD. I've been thrown in the deep end with a child to look after :) I have a repertoire of six dishes (all italian). The rest I just muddle through (I just live on beans on toast, cheese on toast and pasta and pesto as luckily they feed me at work) :)

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KellyElly · 06/10/2012 22:34

I just reread that post - DD doesn't live on that obvs. O just can't afford for us both to eat well as i can't cook but thanks to u lovely ladies we may both be able to eat well :)

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marriedinwhite · 06/10/2012 22:39

Cottage Pie: Essentials Mince 500g (fry off the fat, actually much tastier), tin toms (essentials/basics), an onion (if your dd will eat - not essential), handful of mushrooms, carrots, cup of made-up bisto gravy, potatoes - probably about 500 - 750 g.

fry off mince, you can soften the onion and sliced carrots in the tomatoes (if you can't stretch to a bottle of oil), add mince to onions, chuck in chopped mushrooms, let it simmer a bit, add the gravy (bisto will do - two heaped tsps to a teacup), if you can stretch to a bit of brown sauce or lea and perrins it will add flavour. Put in a deepish dish and let it cool overnight. Next day boil potatoes, mash with a bit of milk and butter if you have it. spread over the mince mixture and bung in a hot oven for about 35 minutes.

That can probably be done for about £2.50 and if there are just the two of you should do three portions each.

Fish pie: white fish (cheap stuff such as coley is fine - about 400g), some smoked fish (200g) or a tin of pink salmon (on special for £1.50 at the Mo), poach it in about 3/4 pint of milk for about 6 minutes. strain the fish and keep the milk - strain into a jug. 1oz butter in a saucepan, one level tbs plain flour in the melted butter. Give it a good stir, add the milk, stirring all the time until it thickens a bit. Add some salt and pepper and some fresh parsley if you can stretch to it. Fold in the fish and allow to cool. You might want to slice two hard boiled eggs onto the top if you like the sound of it. Let it cool overnight and then pop the mash on as above and bung in the over for 35 minutes. Again this should do 3-4 adult servings and 3-4 baby servings.

Serve both the above with a green veg.

I live in London too - can you get to a market for cheap veg?

KellyElly · 06/10/2012 22:42

Married thank u so much. I can stretch to all of that. Now I have a question about simmering. Do u bring to the boil and then turn down to say 5 (electric hob) or lower or higher and for how long?

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KellyElly · 06/10/2012 22:43

Sorry to sound stupid but I really only cook italian dishes which don't require simmering x

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KellyElly · 06/10/2012 22:46

Also married I wish you were my mum lol. U sound a great chef :) Please tell me you are older than me and have been cooking for years (I'm 32 and already ashamed if u r younger than me)!

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DoMeDon · 06/10/2012 22:46

Risotto is easy to make too - risotto rice is in aisle with normal rice. Cook chicken, mushrooms and peas, stir in risotto rice and add chicken stock (made with chicken bovril or oxo cube) a little bit, 100ml or so, at a time until all absorbed (quantities are on side of rice packet)

We also have tuna pasta - cooked pasta mixed with tinned tuna, mayo and sweetcorn, chopped cucumber, chopped tomato.

Spanish chicken - casserole dish layer raw chicken breasts, then sliced onion and pepper, cover with carton of seived tomatos with olives or garlic and onion, cover with foil and bake in oven till cooked (about an hour) - serve with rice/pasta/Jacket potato and extra frozen veg if you want.

Double cooked jackets - Oven bake large jacket poatos, scoop out middles. Mash the scooped out potato with butter, cheese, cooked mushrooms, onion and bacon. Refill the potato skins, top with grated cheese and pop back in oven until cheese melts.

I'm getting hungry Smile Hope you like some of those.

Softlysoftly · 06/10/2012 22:47

Bugger pyrex I have one large metal tureen type pan that I fry to meat/onions/spices off in then add whatever and put in the oven or simmer on the job. One pot to clean after. God Iim a lazy cook.

Current favourite is chunks of beef, same spices I mentioned already plus paprika if you feel like it, stock and tomatoes in the oven for an hour on low heat then add gnocchi, another 10 minutes with lid off and serve with bread to mop it up, lovely!

There Worra we've moved on to cookware far more Cooke for a Saturday night yes?

Softlysoftly · 06/10/2012 22:49

Cool not Cooke. Shit I can't even spell it anymore Blush

BlackholesAndRevelations · 06/10/2012 22:51

Lol Worra!! I'm un bed with my Jamie Oliver meals in fifteen minutes book! Grin

DoMe- like the sound of the twice baked jackets, think my kids and dp would like them too!

UniS · 06/10/2012 22:52

More varied lunches than many children eat OP.

I think by then DS was on a strict lunchtime diet of
peanut butter sandwich & cucumber.

BigFatLegsInWoolyTIghts · 06/10/2012 22:52

Oh Worra I'm crying with laughter at your "Sombre moment" about chatting of mince on a saturday night! Grin

God help us all.

marriedinwhite · 06/10/2012 22:52

Bring to boil. Then turn right down. Simmering is when you can just see a bubble break the surface from time to time. You will need the saucepan lid slightly off or too much heat will build up inside. Remember to stir about every five minutes or the bottom might burn. Remember that mince (esp cheap mince) needs to be simmered for about half an hour; fish is minutes only.

If you try a white sauce for the fish make sure you stir it all the time as you add and even once the milk is added. A balloon whisk is perfect for this.

Once you master a white sauce you can probably cook anything. The basics are: good knob of butter, spoon of flour. Melt the butter, add the flour, stirring all the time - if you make sure there is more butter to flour to begin with so it stays a bit liquid and buttery you will have less trouble with lumps until you become expert. Add a bit of salt and pepper (your dd might not like the pepper so don't add if in doubt). After that you can add anything, cheese (macaroni cheese), onions and cheese (lob over a casserole pot of potatoes and bacon bits - onions if your dd with eat - and you have a cheap, cheap dinner for at least two days to serve with carrots/and or cabbage), breadcrumbs to make bread sauce, with a bit of cheese over leeks wrapped with ham. It is literally endless.

BigFatLegsInWoolyTIghts · 06/10/2012 22:53

It was the Sad that tipped me over.

Softlysoftly · 06/10/2012 22:54

Kelly I also never cooked before having DD1 (now 3), in fact she was weaned on odd mixtures such as pea and sardine purée , thank feck my sister switched her to baby led weaning out of pity for her poor niece no doubt.

Anyway took me ages to get a grip in it and lots of burnt pans which is why I now have only 1 left, you will get there!

Plus DH and his chef mate still won't eat my food snooty fuckers.

Softlysoftly · 06/10/2012 22:57

Married balloon whisk Shock

You are going to scare our poor op Saturday might distraction victim away!

marriedinwhite · 06/10/2012 22:59

I'm 52 OP and have been known to knock up a cheap cottage pie for 30 or so for a local homeless shelter - fairly regularly. A very nice lady called Rosemany Shrager taught me the basics (and a bit more) more than 30 years ago Blush

Shaky · 06/10/2012 22:59

Can I just enlighten you to the joys of frozen mash ( totally lazy I know but also awesome) works brilliantly for cottage pie, just defrost in microwave, chuck it on top of mince, bung in oven, perfect.

Also just chuck some sausages in the oven, cook some mash in microwave, do some gravy, sausage & mash = perfect autumn comfort food.

I am a slattern

KellyElly · 06/10/2012 22:59

Thanks everyone. The nicest most productibe AIBU I've been on for a long time.

Married thank u for teaching me how to simmer :) The white sauce sounds a bit scary. I will go on to that in time :) x

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KellyElly · 06/10/2012 23:01

I'm currently eating monster munch dipped in hummous. I have strange tastes. The recipies start tomorrow :)

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Shaky · 06/10/2012 23:02

I hope it's pickled onion flavour, anything else and YABU! Grin

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