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AIBU?

to get annoyed with people who are not ready when it's their turn?

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 06/10/2012 19:29

I stood behind a woman in the queue in H&M today for 20 minutes. When she got to the counter she wanted to exchange something. The lady serving asked for her receipt. Cue 10 minutes of searching all her carrier bags, her handbag, her pockets, her purse, through 100 other receipts that were in her purse, the floor before she finally located it. The queue got longer and longer and longer.

I also find this at the airport when people wait until it's their turn to put their stuff in the little tray thing to take off their belt/shoes, take out their laptop/liquds. Why not do it while you're waiting, so you can just put it in when you get there?

AIBU to think that you should have your receipt/card/cash/shoes/liquids or whatever to hand if you've been waiting to be served for 20 minutes?

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Mollydoggerson · 07/10/2012 15:17

I think YABU and impatient.

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LocoParentis · 07/10/2012 15:29

M&S two dine in!!!!!!

In my dreams this is how i would like it to work:

You arrrive, you stand back to look at the available choices while you hum and har about what you want. or which combination will give the best monitary value you make your decision. Only when you are sure what you want do you step forward to put said items in your trolley and move on. It would take about 15 secs. No one would be inconvenienced or unable to see the options.

The piss boiling reality is:

You follow the sea of zombies people to the two shelves. you cannot get near them to even see what the available options are. Tall DH tells you. You try to elbow your way to the front but there is always at least four fuckers people agonising over the herb crusted cod or roast chicken, Totally blocking the shelf so the only way in is to elbow them in the face to extract your items, say excuse me as you shove them to the floor to get in front or wait for fifteen fucking minutes while they make their decision than then SQUEEZE ALL THE CHICKENS before choosing one.

It can ruin a perfectly good weekend.

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 18:09

'Its not blocking everyone else, its doing it in the correct manner, there is no need to have done everything before you get to the conveyor.'

No GoSak . I'm afraid you are mistaken. Causing the queue to build up, causing other people to wait for ages while you sort yourself out is NOT 'doing it in the correct manner'. It is being inconsiderate to your fellow traveller.

Do you ever wonder why all along the bit where you're queueing there are signs saying 'take your liquids out', 'take your belts off', 'empty your pockets' etc? Do you wonder why the staff say, loudly, to the people nearing the front of the queue 'make sure your liquids are out'? It's because you are supposed to be ready when you get there.

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giraffesCantGoGuisingAsZebras · 07/10/2012 18:15

"I almost shat my spleen out"

Grinbupcakes I just spat on my screen with laughter at that.

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GoSakuramachi · 07/10/2012 18:21

So please do explain to me how I do that in the queue, Batman. I really would like to know how one human woman holds a wriggling baby, pushes a pram, herds three other under 6's, holds her own and most of their hand luggage and takes belt and shoes off and liquids out and laptop out, all while moving in a queue.
Seriously, you tell me how and I will gladly do it so as not to add 15 seconds or so to your wait. Hmm

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 18:30

When you get to the front of the queue, move over out of the way, let the people who are ready through, and then rejoin when you've had time to sort yourself out. Very simple.

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GoSakuramachi · 07/10/2012 18:32

at the conveyor bit. Which is what I said I did already. But you told me several times to do it all in the queue

Way to backpedal. Hmm

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 18:32

'so as not to add 15 seconds or so to your wait'

If it really is 15 seconds, if you can do shoes, liquids, laptop, wriggly baby, 3 other under sixes etc in 15 seconds then carry on as you are. If it's more like 5 minutes, just move out the way.

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 18:33

not at the conveyor so no-one else can go through, over to one side!

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GoSakuramachi · 07/10/2012 18:35

You can't do it til you get to the conveyor and have a box/place to put anything down. Over to one side has the same problem, unless you have 15 hands to carry everything over.

Maybe if impatient arses like yourself didn't stand there huffing and puffing and give a hand it might be easier. But you can just go around at the conveyor, so still, what is your problem?

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MaryZed · 07/10/2012 18:37

I put all my loose stuff into my bag. And put my bag on the conveyor. Doesn't everyone else?

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GoSakuramachi · 07/10/2012 18:38

But then you have all the stuff you have to take out, to replace the stuff that you put in. Kindles, take out, tablets, take out, liquids, take out, phones, take out.

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 18:41

Yes MaryZed, anyone with any common sense does exactly that.

GoSak I am not an 'impatient arse', I do not 'stand there huffing and puffing' and if you asked me to give you a hand, I would. For future reference you can take a tray with you over to one side, put your things in it, carry it over....

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MaryZed · 07/10/2012 18:43

Ok, you have one plastic bag with liquids in the outiside pocket of your handluggage.

You have everything else in the bag instead of in random pockets.

Or have it in pockets and take off your sodding jacket and put it through the conveyor (that works for children's random shite).

Just don't faff. I hate faffing. If there are 200 people in a queue, and everyone faffs for 2 minutes, that's a calculates madly awful long time Shock

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fairtomiddling · 07/10/2012 18:46

GoSak, if it's needing to put things down that's the issue, can you not use the pram as a handy mobile table? Or the children... if you've got an extra eight pair of hands around, might as well use them. Grin (Not being entirely serious there, before anyone froths at me!)

For the record, I am exceedingly impatient and often have to take deep breaths to avoid mortally wounding my fellow shoppers/travellers/pavement-walkers....

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GoSakuramachi · 07/10/2012 19:00

I tried that, I got shouted at by the security bastards for not having the pram folded down ready to be put through the scanner!

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GoSakuramachi · 07/10/2012 19:01

I think the answer I have here is "we want you to be quicker but no, we have no idea how you should achieve that" so basically, you can just wait.

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 19:10

Move to the side! That's all you need to do, honestly it's not hard. Loads of people travel with young kids, you're not the only one to ever have done it.

If you're looking for tips may I suggest;
get the kids a backpack each so you don't need to carry their stuff
put your hand luggage in a back pack or a pull-along suitcase so you're hands free
empty your pockets into your bag before you get in the queue
choose an outfit that doesn't require a belt
take shoes off before you get in the queue and put them in your bag, shuffle along in your socks.
make use of your children's hands (excellent suggestion fairto)

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GoSakuramachi · 07/10/2012 19:14

I do move to the side! at the start of the conveyor belt, where people can go around, but you've said that isn't good enough.
If you move to the side of the queue not at the belt you get shouted at by security, it is not allowed.
Jeez, what do you want, blood? Just calm yourself down and wait a few minutes, what is your hurry? Don't be telling people in a difficult situation how shit they are just to save yourself a couple of minutes, your time just isn;t as precious as you think it is.

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 19:17

If you're not blocking the queue, then it's good enough for me!

Grin Reading your posts I think it might be you that needs to calm down though!

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Queuebandit · 07/10/2012 20:01

You'd have all hated me last week. M&S Simply Food on a Saturday afternoon, I was the one buying 40 gift cards each with £20 on them. No customer service desk so no choice but to go through the normal checkouts.

Woman behind me huffed and puffed and several times said "If I'd realised this I would have gone to another till". The cards were clearly on the belt, I didn't hide the things under a newspaper or whip them out at the last minute (Tadaaaaa... Look what I have here! Grin). Should I have explained my purchase to every customer in the queue just in case their trolley of shopping was more urgent than my purchase?

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HolyAutumnGoldBatman · 07/10/2012 20:10

but that's not faffing. If you'd have got to the checkout and then spent an hour going, 'now this giftcard is for Aunty Muriel, so £15 on that one, this one is for the milkman £10 on that one, hmmm this one is for DS's teacher. How much should I put on that one? Let me ring DH and ask....' and then spent 10 minutes trying to locate you card to pay, then the lady behind would be within her rights to brain you with a frozen ready meal.

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BrianButterfield · 07/10/2012 20:14

The M&S Dine in for Two fridge is the second most irritating place in the world. The first most irritating by a long chalk, is, ladies and gentleman, the self-service toaster section at a hotel breakfast buffet. Hey, you know what, fourteen people all putting your bread through twice? If you TURNED THE TOASTER UP A BIT you could just do it once and maybe, just maybe, we'd all get toast before someone (me) goes mental and batters someone to death with a loaf of Bimbo.

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Queuebandit · 07/10/2012 20:21

Ah, but Brian, hotel toasters are only there for Toast Roulette. Do you stick with your pale-and-slightly-warm bread that's been through once or do you risk a second run knowing that it'll almost certainly be cremated. That's the gamble.

I actually vote with PP that the most annoying scenario is at the train ticket office. How can you get to the front of the queue and not have the faintest idea when you want to travel Angry.

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TheSurgeonsMate · 07/10/2012 20:23

Brian for some reason your post on not understanding how a toaster works has reminded me of people who can't grasp the system at a taxi rank offering space for more than one taxi to load at a time. That does my nut in.

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