My sis is in a brand new relationship, loved up etc. Everyone's met him, but only once. Seems like a nice guy, but.....
Our mum died in July, and we're scattering her ashes on Sunday. New bf is coming along, sitting in the car while we do it, and then coming for lunch with us later on.
AIBU to be a bit bothered by this? I might be in a right old state, and I don't think I'll be comfortable blubbing into my sunday roast with a stranger. There will be our other sisters and brothers, and our stepdad. My sis hasn't asked any of us if we mind if he comes along :(
I understand she wants emotional support but I don't really want him there! I really think if it was me I'd leave him at home.
AIBU?