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To ask why somepeople use the word mom on here?

106 replies

Bubblemoon · 03/10/2012 15:05

Mom?

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WholeLottaRosie · 03/10/2012 16:58

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HeirExtensions · 03/10/2012 17:13

I have a Mum (Scotland) and some people here have a Maw, a Mither, or a Mere.

squoosh · 03/10/2012 17:20

or a Wee Maw Grin

BegoniaBampot · 03/10/2012 17:31

Another who had a maw, mam, mum, mummy and mither depending on my mood. My youngest calls me mama, the older one uses mum. They also use diaper and ask me not scold them which makes me laugh as it sounds so old fashioned. Some folk do get quite snotty about what words they deem acceptable.

HeirExtensions · 03/10/2012 17:33

squoosh Grin

I also had a Papa instead of a Grandad or Granpa.

squoosh · 03/10/2012 17:34

Oh yeah, I love how Scottish kids call their Grandad their Papa. It sounds so sweet.

cheekybarsteward · 03/10/2012 17:34

I have a mater Mom, and I am my DD's Mommy

BegoniaBampot · 03/10/2012 17:38

Do English folk not use papa for granddad then? There was a thread recently where someone got huffy as the grandfather wanted to be called papa and she refused as to her that meant father.

squoosh · 03/10/2012 17:39

I've only ever heard Papa for Grandad in Scotland.

Biggem · 03/10/2012 17:39

My SA DH uses it aswell.
I don't want to be called Mom or Mommy so it's a real effort on his part to use Mum.
He sounds weird saying it actually!!
Hmm

HeirExtensions · 03/10/2012 17:41

Begonia I've never heard it in England however its a big place and my experience is limited to Yorkshire. I kinda remember that thread.

PiggyBankMum · 03/10/2012 17:44

I'm from the Midlands and I say 'Mam'.

I wouldn't write 'Mam' though, because I would feel as if I were stereotyping myself - like writing 'oop north'. And Mam is a pronounciation of Mum, in my mind.

CovMum · 03/10/2012 17:46

Certainly not from this part of the Midlands. It is Birmingham area that say it not most of the West Midlands.

BitOutOfPractice · 03/10/2012 19:44

ie not Coventry CovMum?

StetsonsAreCool · 03/10/2012 19:52

"You can take the girl out of Bilston, but you can't take Bilston out of the girl"

^^ This. With bells on.

I'm most put out that DH can't understand that I want to be called Mommy/Mom too.

DH's dad is called Papa, and his mum is called Ooma, by DD. FIL's family has Norfolk roots, and all the Norfolk grandparents are Ooma and Papa. I don't know if it's a Norfolk thing or a family thing though Confused

BitOutOfPractice · 03/10/2012 20:34

I'm from Sedgley :o

Oma (pronounced Oh-Mar) is Dutch for Grandma btw

Rhiana1979 · 03/10/2012 20:47

Another black country girl here. I'm a mommy.

Not far away from you bitoutofpractice

SoggyMoggy · 03/10/2012 21:01

Another 'furriner' here. I generally use Mom and Mommy if I'm not thinking about it and Mum and Mummy if my brain is awake enough to remember to change. I'm learning, but it's a work in progress, much like my remembering to tuck the u in colour. Wink

IdCalUaCuntBtUvNtGotTheDepth · 03/10/2012 21:34

I see this thread pop up pretty regularly but I never actually notice posters say mom. I'm American but will usually use "mum" on mumsnet as you lot are forrin and don't want to confuse anyone Grin

CatWithARabbit · 03/10/2012 21:40

Happyasapiginshite-Did you call your Mam Mammy when you were little?

BallyGoBackwards · 03/10/2012 21:46

Of course happyasapiginshite said Mammy when she was small Smile

I started with Mammy, moved on to "me ma", moved on to "mam" and did fukk circle back to mammy.

But she is gone now and I miss her Sad

BallyGoBackwards · 03/10/2012 21:47

Hello?? fukk......meant full circle!!

OwedToAutumn · 03/10/2012 21:56

DH is from near Stourbridge, and although it is pronounced more like Mom, I've only seen his mother write it as Mum.

I'm not from round'ere, but it was always Mummy, then Mum when I was little. My sister and I went through a phase of saying Ma, but that was an affectation because we liked it from the Little House books.

My DC all call me Mummy (eldest is 13). I didn't know it made me posh!

SinisterBuggyMonth · 03/10/2012 22:55

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CatWithARabbit · 03/10/2012 22:59

Ahh Bally- I miss mine too. She would have been bemused by MN but still would have wanted to hear all about it! Smile