OK, so STBEX H left a year ago after I found out about his OW. He has just recently moved in with OW and her DS into a large detached house and my DSs stay with them every other w/e and Tuesday teatimes. It's DS1's 14th birthday next week, closest to STBEX H's w/e so I suggested he might want to organise a birthday treat for DS1. (It's DS2's birthday this week and I've organised a friend to sleepover for that.) STBEX was fine with this and has arranged Go Karting for DS1 and 4 friends.
The DC are happy to see their dad and stay with him alt w/e s but don't want to extend it any more than that. We all still live in the house they have always lived in and their friends come here for tea etc. STBEX H dropped DS1 home after Explorers tonight with some invitations for his friends. He had hoped to give them all out at Explorers but 2 of them had already gone home, so DS brought them here. I couldn't resist a peek at them as they weren't in an envelope.
They read, 'Please come to DS's party on 14th October'
'Come to DS's house at 1.30 for Karting at 3.00. Then back for tea and stuff at DS's.'
Then a picture of a Go Kart and at the bottom in small print, STBEX's new address, email, home phone no and mobile no.
IABU to want to alter this to read, 'Please come to DS's dad's house?'
The friends have all been here, 2 are primary school friends since reception and have been here hundreds of times and the other 2 have also been here for tea/hanging out. They have never been to STBEX H's house and I am sure that they think of my house as being DS's.
I think they may come here by mistake. They all live within walking distance of my house, but STBEX H lives a couple of miles away across town.
I can't decide if IBU or if this invitation would read really strangely to others. Am I letting my emotional response get the better of me?
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EllenJaneisstillnotmyname · 02/10/2012 23:46
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