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AIBU?

To dislike seeing teenagers kissing in the park?

43 replies

Ilovechocspread · 30/09/2012 18:33

Is it just me or do others feel uncomfortable when with their dc?

OP posts:
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Whitecherry · 30/09/2012 19:00

Op doesn't seem to want her dc seeing this....

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Himalaya · 30/09/2012 19:03

Naw, kissing in the park is lovely.

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AViewfromtheFridge · 30/09/2012 19:04

This thread reminds me of the Fleur Adcock poem:

Kissing
The young are walking on the riverbank
arms around each other?s waist and shoulders,
pretending to be looking at the waterlilies
and what might be a nest of some kind, over
there, which two who are clamped together
mouth to mouth have forgotten about.
The others, making courteous detours
around them, talk, stop talking, kiss.
They can see no one older than themselves.
It?s their river. They?ve got all day.

Seeing?s not everything. At this very
moment the middle-aged are kissing
in the backs of taxis, on the way
to airports and stations. Their mouths and tongues
are soft and powerful and as moist as ever.
Their hands are not inside each other?s clothes
(because of the driver) but locked so tightly
together that it hurts: it may leave marks
on their not of course youthful skin, which they won?t
notice. They too may have futures.

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McHappyPants2012 · 30/09/2012 19:06

I would be a hypocrite if I said Yanbu, me and DH spent a lot of time in the park after dark kissing and holding hands

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larks35 · 30/09/2012 19:14

Yep I'll add to the YABU. Out of interest would 30somethings snogging bother you in the same way? When I met my DP we snogged just about everywhere! I couldn't care less at the time what people might have thought, I was in luurve Grin.

Mmmm snogging in the park, has to beat jogging any day doesn't it?

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PuffPants · 30/09/2012 19:17

Kissing is fine, it's the groping and straddling I don't like.

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MissBetseyTrotwood · 30/09/2012 19:21

I did loads of snogging in parks when I was a teenager because... where else is there to do it? I couldn't do it at home - we lived with my Grandma and to describe her morals as Edwardian would have been most accurate. Can't remember how understanding of teenage romance the boys' families were although many were boarders so there was no chance of any privacy there either!

Can't say it would bother me if I were with my DC as long as it were only kissing, holding hands etc.

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BizarreLoveTriangle · 30/09/2012 19:21

I took my dcs to the park the other week and we saw dsd1 snogging some guy. Our response was "awww". I think we'd react the same way to any teenagers.

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exoticfruits · 30/09/2012 19:23

It is a teenage thing-I can't see why it bothers anyone.

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voddiekeepsmesane · 30/09/2012 19:29

Why does it bother you so much? Can you not remember the teenage lust love?

Our children see me and DP (together 11 years) snogging all the time :)

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Whitecherry · 30/09/2012 19:30

Op can't be that bothered, she posted but didn't stick around to moan..

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WorraLiberty · 30/09/2012 19:33

The last time I saw a teenage boy and girl kissing in the park, a little kid on the slide pointed at them and shouted, Ewww they're kissing, that's sooo gay!!

Loving the irony Grin

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LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 30/09/2012 19:35

Haha Worra... Grin

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I'm going to go against the grain and say YANBU.  It's not attractive at all.  A chaste kiss is one thing (whatever age), but more than that - NO.  Not for public consumption at all.
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WofflingOn · 30/09/2012 19:37

May teenagers find the sight of old people, like 30+, gross if they are kissing or holding hands or groping each other.
I think all we can do is hope for tolerance and acceptance of the signs of human affection.

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WorraLiberty · 30/09/2012 19:38

"Not for public consumption"

Blush
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MadamFolly · 30/09/2012 19:42

Where else are they supposed to do it?

I used to sneak back into school after hours and do my shagging snogging against the Science blackboard. Schools have such tight security nowadays you can't do that :(

:o

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Zara1984 · 30/09/2012 19:47

YABU

It's sweet! Would rather see teens kissing than teens engaging in anti-social behaviour!

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MrDobalina · 30/09/2012 20:33

its heart warming to see teens kissing. i don't like seeing teen couples arguing Sad

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