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AIBU?

To be surprised Kate changed her bikini bottoms outdoors?

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Liketochat1 · 30/09/2012 12:40

I absolutely think the Duchess of Cambridge should have privacy and I think the behaviour of the photographer was disgraceful. I am surprised though to learn that she changed her bikini bottoms outdoors. Even I wouldn't do that in my back garden on the off chance someone saw. AIBU?

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motherinferior · 30/09/2012 13:07

If I were holidaying at a private villa in hot weather I would run around stark nekkid all day, frankly.

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Narked · 30/09/2012 13:12

It does make me wonder about that Motherinferior, because that's pretty much what we did as DC. Will the photographers creep around taking pictures of any children they have in the future, eg swimming? Are they going to have to ensure that they're never less than completely covered or end up with pictures of their naked DC all over the internet?

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eurochick · 30/09/2012 13:40

I know what the OP means, I think. These pictures should clearly never have been taken and it is absolutely wrong that her privacy has been invaded in this way. But it is rather odd in my experience for an adult to change swimwear outside (even under a towel). I think the last time I did it I must have been under ten! I'm not justifying the taking of the pictures in anyway, just finding it rather odd that the situation where they could be taken occurred in the first place.

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TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 30/09/2012 13:41

Six.
Hundred.
Metres.

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Trills · 30/09/2012 14:29

:o at the appropriate username there Doctrine

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LadyBeagleEyes · 30/09/2012 15:09

I've changed many a time when on holiday.
If my bikini bottoms are wet after a swim and I'm going for lunch and I'm changing into shorts or something.
I usually do it modestly under a towel.
I can't believe this is such an issue for people.

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slowestwildebeast · 30/09/2012 15:15

Poor woman. I sunbathe in the garden and am forever stripping. I just don't care or worry. it must be horrible to do things you'd normally take for granted and have to stop yourself each time and ponder perverts in the bushes.
I hate the royal family but this is stupid.

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ZZZenAgain · 30/09/2012 15:17

I am afraid my dh does this. All the time. He has a swim and changes his trunks anywhere (under a towel obviously) on the beach, at a hotel pool etc. It drives me nuts. He even did this on beaches in the US where I was told by American friends afterwards, it is actually illegal. Whether that is true, I don't know.

I have no idea why he can't leave them on like everyone else but I have given up commenting on it. He will always have two with him, one to wear, one to hang up or lay out to dry.

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gindrinker · 30/09/2012 15:26

The photographers were going to take the pictures anyway.
We don't hear about the days the photographer had to spend watching and waiting for her to do something he could sell.
The invasion of privacy is huge.
I don't care that Kate was topless or bottomless or even naked with her husband while on holiday in France.
Have you never flashed your husband when you've been alone (or assumed you were)

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honeytea · 30/09/2012 15:29

I can't see a problem with her changing outside.

What are we going to find out? SHe has a bumConfused or even more shocking a fannyConfused what did we think she had under there?

If you don't want to see her bum don't look at the pictures, if you do want to see her bum then your a perv, if your friend was changing outside you wouldn't stare you'd look the other way (surely.)

The photographer on the other hand was in the wrong.

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Nishky · 30/09/2012 15:39

The issue I had was not with changing outside it was th actual changing at all. I can understand the changing if going to lunch, but if just to carry on sunbathing I didn't get it. Though as someone explained up thread it may be a case of not wanting to lie on lounger with wet pants

I am rather aged now but my trips to beaches tended to involve wearing one bikini all day, throwing in shirt or sarong to go back to hotel if wanted to change. It would not occur to me to have a spare bikini.

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wilderumpus · 30/09/2012 15:40

eek just got back from italy where I would get my dress on after swimming in the sea and whip my bikini tops and bottoms off underneath and put clean knicks on so all dry for lunch! is this really taboo now?! we swim so much it just seems daft having wet bottoms or looking like I wet myself in a restaurant.

it is well pervy for the DoC and cannot be justified. who cares why she was changing?! TBH if she was laid out stark nekkid the pics would not be allowed to be published. 600 metres away is insanely creepy :( How can you live thinking you never have privacy? you'd go mad surely.

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McHappyPants2012 · 30/09/2012 15:45

In a private villa then even I would change outside.

The media should respect people privacy.

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ZZZenAgain · 30/09/2012 15:47

me neither in dh's case Nishky. He swims, changes, lies down and sunbathes, swims, changes etc

I swim, lie down and sunbathe in my wet things and they dry quickly, then I swim again

Some people just dislike the feel of wet clothes I suppose. I would also change to go and have lunch

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OldCatLady · 30/09/2012 15:49

How awful for her. I always change under a towel on the beach, if a picture of me naked ended up in the press...I'd be MORTIFIED and FUMING!!

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ZZZenAgain · 30/09/2012 15:51

I didn't realise that actual photos have been published, in France I suppose?

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InfinityWelcomesCarefulDrivers · 30/09/2012 15:52

PMSL at Rick Tapestry

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honeytea · 30/09/2012 15:56

There were published in Denmark, the topless ones were published here in Sweden but no one was interested as toplessness (real word? sp?) is normal.

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aquashiv · 30/09/2012 16:06

Of FFS its Diana all over again. I am fed up to the back teeth of reading such innane trivial shit about this woman leave her alone and give us some peace.

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GiserableMitt · 30/09/2012 17:26

Have you never flashed your husband when you've been alone (or assumed you were) Good Lord, No! He might think he was onto something Grin

I didn't realise DoC was changing under a towel. Obviously, even being careful isn't enough.

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Narked · 30/09/2012 18:39

These are the same rags that pay people for pictures of dead celebrities in their coffins. They have no line. I dread to think what they'll do to any DC they have.

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purplehouse · 30/09/2012 18:44

She was on a totally private estate with a 600m radius of privacy. The person taking the photo is just a scummy sod. Kate did nothing wrong.

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zlist · 30/09/2012 18:53

She did nothing wrong at all, although I would expect that their security people were fairly close-by and for that reason I am a little surprised.
Press privacy invasion has definitely gone way too far across the line for far too long now, which I think leads some in the general public to think it is ok for them to do the same (e.g. taking photographs of traffic accidents and uploading without a thought for the victims and relatives).
I think the British press have a lot to answer for as well in this case - simply by highlighting the existence of these photographs to the brits on the internet. I not surprised that an estimated 25% of the UK population have now seen them.

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WipsGlitter · 30/09/2012 18:54

She's not really under a towel ie it's not wrapped round her. More draped over her shoulders.

OP I agree, even if I was in the middle of no-where I still would have gone inside.

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GnomeDePlume · 30/09/2012 19:02

Of course she did nothing wrong. At this rate the poor woman is going to end up having to shower with her swimming costume on in case some photographer manages to fold himself up into the airing cupboard and take pictures through the keyhole.

My guess is that the court case was about drawing a line in the sand before children are on the scene.

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