We get very little in the way of requests, having read the thread I can't believe how lucky we have been! In secondary school in the 80s I remember having to buy all our own paper, pens, pencils, notebooks/folders/exercise books. We just did it.
Textbooks were provided, but at the end of the year we had to hand them back in. They were then checked over, in public whilst all our mates were present, and we were charged for any damage done. That blinking well taught us to treat them right. We had to pay for our own paper to cover them for the year too.
But school trips - that's another ball game. £300 for a crappy youth hostel trip? I'd be up in arms too, having paid nothing like that for DD2's 2 nights away in a swanky activity centre with everything laid on. And DD1's trip to the Isle of Wight last year was £250 - three nights away, food, transport, ferries, insurance, all activities. BoffinMum was right, school was taking the piss.
And don't get me started on single supplier uniforms. DD1's current secondary has introduced a blazer/clip/on tie jobbie and it is via a sole supplier, but it actually costs a bit less than the previous sweater/polo shirt uniform, which can still be worn by Yrs 8/9 because they don't want to force the parents to shell out. It looks smart and it's really affordable. Including PE kit I paid £65. For everything.
We've had a free school open nearby - their uniform is well over £100. And it's different for boys and girls so you can't pass it down if you have one of each - not just a slight difference in cut that you could get away with, but prescribed different for boys and girls. That's fleecing parents.
And the school bus route subsidies are being changed, so that parents in the free school catchment who are on low incomes are effectively being forced to send their DCs to the free schools, because the cost of transport becomes prohibitive.
That's what we have to look forward to under this government.