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aibu to wonder if interviews with the following questions in them can still exist in a universe where there are equal rights acts?

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lolaflores · 21/09/2012 16:23

My friend had an interview today with a large (very large) company based in Ireland. In the course of the interview she was asked;
How many kids do you have
Are you married
How old are you
Can you manage the drive here (it is a semi rural setting)
Do you understand this is a full time job, not part time, like 9-5
Do you have child care arrangements
are you planning any more kids

seriously?
Suffice to say they did not offer her a second interview. I doubt she would have accepted it.
So when other threads give out about being a feminist and not and what have you, this makes we wonder if we have made any head way whatsoever. Or that certain improvements in some industries are taken a bit for granted and there are areas that are medieval in comparison.

OP posts:
pugglefan · 22/09/2012 19:39

A friend told me a few weeks ago that she was asked if she had any children or was planning them. She panicked and blurted out, "No, I hate children!"

bumperella · 22/09/2012 21:01

pugglefan - was she going for childminders job :-) ?

twilight3 · 22/09/2012 21:03

A very big bank here in England asked me during an interview whether I have children and what am I going to do about childcare (no one ever asked my husband the same question despite the fact we share the same children)

blibbleflop · 22/09/2012 21:31

Long term the best solution to these sorts of questions is for everyone, regardless of gender and regardless of whether they have children or not; to have access to the same flexible working. Until this happens there is a big disparity from what a business can expect from different employees.

The issue with this form of discrimination is that there is an economic benefit to it. Hiring a black person, white person, gay or straight has no effect on the operation of a business. Unpalatable as it is, there IS a business benefit to hiring the person less likely to go on maternity leave or have childcare issues day to day.

Fundamentally a parent of young children is more likely to take time off work than a person without children and a woman (rightly or wrongly) is more likely to take maternity/paternity/parental leave than a man. Until this changes there is always going to be discrimination in the workplace, the employers will just get better at hiding it.

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