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Am I mad to take two young DC (and buggy) on long train journey in rush hour?

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BrightonMama · 19/09/2012 12:33

Quick straw poll needed! Kids are DS1 (4) and DS2 (2) - normally fairly well behaved, but both obviously still have their moments when tired and 2 year old not all that keen on sitting still for lengthy periods.

My mum is quite poorly and I need to go to see her (she's not a death's door, but is feeling very under the weather and awaiting the results of some tests which she's worried about).

She lives at other end of the country so when we go my DH normally drives. He's away this weekend so can't do it this time. I do drive but have only just passed my test, have never driven on a motorway and just don't feel confident enough to do it with just me and the kids. I feel sick just thinking about it.

Just looked up trains and they would take 4.5 hours (about an hour less than the drive), but we would need to go Friday after eldest has finished school, so would involve some rush hour London action as well as three changes.

Am I mad to think of taking one 2 year old in a buggy and one four year old on the train for four hours in rush hour through London with three changes?

Just thinking back to when I was a commuterwondering why the hell someone would bring kids with them on a train in rush hour - that's my bad karma, obviously.

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bruffin · 19/09/2012 13:20

What type of train is the longest journey. If its a train you can book seats, it may be worth getting a family rail card and buy tickets for the dc and book seats for you all. It will probably be cheaper over all, than buying full price ticket for yourself and dc traveling free.

BrightonMama · 19/09/2012 13:26

Have looked at that bruffin, and can't figure out a way to book seats for all three of us. The two kids are under five so don't have to pay for a ticket. That's great, but it means there's no facility for booking seats. So there's no point in booking a seat for myself as there probably would be no space for the kids.

Am definitely taking the oldest out of school now, thanks to the general consensus. There's a train at 10am which takes less than four hours and only involves two changes not in London so infinitely better all round. Will tell the school the truth no matter what they say!

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BrightonMama · 19/09/2012 13:27

Sorry, in answer to your question longest journey is South West Trains.

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forevergreek · 19/09/2012 13:31

I think the school would e ok, especially if he maybe went morning and you picked up at lunch

A) gives you the morning to get ready with just one
B) just say she's really sick and you need to be there

I would also take no buggy. Use a cab if you have to change stations in London and from station to your mums.
Large rucksack with all your stuff in for weekend ( just really 2 changes each). Then either a small toddler rucksack for Each who can put some toys/ a small book/ raisens in. You can get the ones with attachable reins if you feel safer, maybe for youngest

bruffin · 19/09/2012 14:08

If you have a family rail card, you only pay minimal fares for children and get a reduction for yourself. Even though they are under 5 it can be cheaper to buy tickets for them to get the discount for yourself.
A family rail cards cost about £25 but lasts a year.

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