I am a bigger BMI , but I was last time and had a very straightforward pregnancy and birth and did have a big baby (9'3) but I was 9lbs myself so not too far out.
I had a consultant meeting and said lots had changed since I had first and mentioned having a special anesthetist appointment, stockings? and an injection after birth.
I have very painful SPD which affects my mobility but other than that I'm okay really had very severe MS but tapered off.
Consultant was nice saying 'we don't want to change you its just to help' which is fair enough.
AIBU to think this is a bit OTT? if their are no other issues.