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AIBU?

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....to expect a second chance at my "sorry for the crap service - have this one for free" massage?

22 replies

aMashedUpPhraseWithGravy · 18/09/2012 04:31

A beauty/massage place offered a special - a massage for about a third of the usual price.

I showed up to redeem my special, and was shown into a chilly room....got undressed and slipped under my towel.

Masseuse came back, asked me if I was comfortable. I mentioned it was very cold. She said, "Oh, the heat is controlled by the building, I can't do anything about it, sorry. It should warm up soon." (The place is in a shopping centre.)

Started the massage....far from warming up, the room became progressively colder, to the point that I was actually shivering! When I turned onto my back my teeth started to chatter.

The masseuse apologized at the end. She said, "I was even cold, and I'm the one doing the massage! Ha ha ha!"

She mentioned it to the manager, let's call her Dora. Dora apologized to me about the cold, repeated that they "couldn't do anything about it" but that they would put a small heater in the room from now on, and handed me a brochure saying, "Take this anyway. You can have 20% off on your next service." (This was included with the special, she wasn't offering me the discount because of the poor service.)

Oh, and she asked me how the massage was "apart from the cold" and I truthfully said that the cold permeated the entire experience and I was unable to relax at any point.

Later that day, received a text from the owner, let's call her Carmiela. Carmiela apologized and offered me a free repeat session to make up for the horrible first experience.

I accepted, and made the appointment. I had to reschedule twice because of childcare, sick baby etc. However, I was finally going to go, and then they called and said I'd missed the appointment - I'd made it for 3 and they had 1pm down.

The thing is that they'd sent me an SMS the previous day confirming - I stupidly didn't actually read the SMS, since I had the time in my calendar - just replied YES as requested!

The person refused to reschedule, and Dora called me later - quite surly, not willing to offer me another appointment. Kept asking me "Did you receive the SMS?" I repeated yes I had, absolutely my mistake in not reading it properly. Reminded her that this appointment was to make up for a dreadful first experience. She said flat out, "Well we're not willing to honour that." I said "All right, let's just leave it then" and got off the phone.

Have written it off as a bad experience and a waste of money - but can't help feeling that if I owned the business, I'd want to go the extra mile to ensure a new client got the massage they'd paid for in the first place. Obviously I am not going to be recommending this place to anyone in future!

Am I being unreasonable? I can't decide. They wasted my time and money....but I suppose I did the same when I foolishly missed the appointment!

OP posts:
Softlysoftly · 18/09/2012 05:51

How long in advance did you cancel the other two appointments?

I think they showed willing offering you a repeat massage and dependent on how much warning they had you went on to cost them 3 appointment slots, in which case keeping you as a customer may start to look like a waste of money so YAB a bit U.

JeremyKylesPetProject · 18/09/2012 06:25

YABU. They tried to rectify your complaint. Although the circumstances weren't under your control its not their fault either. I'd let it go tbh and put it down to experience.

ZonkedOut · 18/09/2012 06:27

YABU for replying to the text without reading it!

BoysBoysBoysAndMe · 18/09/2012 06:33

Yabu

The owner went the extra mile to try and make your service a better one

They couldn't do anything about the cold
They apologised
You were offered a freebie
You cancelled the freebie twice (which in theory they could have lost 2 paying customers)
You didn't read the text
You got the time wrong

flowery · 18/09/2012 06:33

It wouldn't be a second chance though, would it? It would be a fourth chance if you've already had to change it twice before that.

WhatYouLookingAt · 18/09/2012 07:53

YABU. Thats a slot they could have filled with someone else. How much do you think they should lose out on your behalf?

Icelollycraving · 18/09/2012 07:53

Yabu. They have missed out on filling the other times,unless you cancelled with more than 48 hours notice. They have tried to accommodate you & actually approached you to offer it as you didn't enjoy the first booking. They can't actually keep rebooking a freebie,they need to fill their diary with customers. If you understood enough to know to reply,seems odd you didn't understand the time on the text.

bulletwithbutterflywings · 18/09/2012 07:56

Yabu. You had 3 chances I think i's fair enough that they didn't give a fourth.

LydiasMiletus · 18/09/2012 07:57

As a business owner I would refuse to redeem as well. You have come across as I high maintenance customer. Which is fine but the high maintenance can get to a point that they would prefer you didn't go back. You have reached that level.
They probably think you were messing them about on purpose as well and you may have lost them paying customers as well, so I do think yabu.

Hopeforever · 18/09/2012 07:57

At our local salon of you miss an appointment you have to pay unless you give 24 hours notice that you can't make it.

You confirmed you would be there, so you should 'pay' for the time even though you didn't turn up. Therefore you lose your free massage.

It's the same at lots of places, hairdressers, private Doctors, nail bars

Pourquoimoi · 18/09/2012 08:00

Yep, sorry another YABU. You had already rescheduled twice and even confirmed the time the day before! (Who replies to texts without reading them?!?)

SavoyCabbage · 18/09/2012 08:01

Yabu. They tried to make up for the cold massage, and it's not their fault that you didn't read the text. That will be the system that they have in place. I think they've done their best.

BenibatchCumberdict · 18/09/2012 08:05

Wow. As a therapist myself, you sound like a client that I would be happy to lose.

YABU.

You have already taken up four times the amount of reception time needed for one appointment, plus a managers time. For a hugely discounted massage. Yes, the room should have been warm, but they have tried to accommodate you. They should not be held responsible for your failings in getting to your appointments. I include all three in that.

OTheHugeManatee · 18/09/2012 08:08

YABU. If it had been a regular appointment you'd probably have had to pay for it. As it is, you 'spent' your free session. The fact that you missed it was down to your cockup and they don't owe you anything.

birdofthenorth · 18/09/2012 08:08

They had probably heated up the room for your 13:00 massage just for you. A lesson to us all to actually read confirmation texts before rsvping.

Thumbwitch · 18/09/2012 08:14

Sorry, YABU. It is a shame that there was a mistake in the appt time but you should have checked the SMS properly and you didn't.

Also, having been on the other end of this situation, a client who keeps rescheduling their appt, even with 24h notice, is a PITA. I appreciate it may not be your fault, but it still represents lost income, in that your appts could have been given to paying clients, and in all fairness it's not common that people make short-notice appts, so those hours would most likely have been lost income. Depending on how the business runs, if the massage therapist pays on a room rental basis, she would actually have lost money, paying for that empty hour, possibly 3 times. So you, I'm afraid, have now potentially cost the therapist a fair whack of money, way more than you have lost.

Tee2072 · 18/09/2012 08:19

I have to agree with everyone else.

It's not your second chance. It's your fourth.

This is why so many salons/spas ask for a credit card when booking appointments. So they still get paid if you cock up.

As I'm always telling my husband, read your friggin' texts!

OutragedAtThePriceOfFreddos · 18/09/2012 08:21

YABU. They did what good customer service dictates they should do. It's not their fault that you didn't read the text and that there was a misunderstanding over time. they have sad they will try to rectify the problem and offered to a free treatment. What more do you want?

They are trying to run a business, and giving you the free massage will have cost them already. They have already paid that cost because of the missed appointment, because they couldn't give it to someone else. And you are expecting them to pay that cost again for your mistake? Sorry but YABVU, you have to remember that this is how someone else is making their livelihood.

ENormaSnob · 18/09/2012 08:21

Yabu

Jinsei · 18/09/2012 08:27

Sorry OP, you are being unbelievably unreasonable!

aMashedUpPhraseWithGravy · 18/09/2012 12:35

Wow thanks for all the replies. This has been incredibly helpful. I see now that I was indeed being VVU, and strangely I feel a lot better about the situation! I think because if I felt that I had been treated badly, I might feel resentful, whereas now I can just let it go.

And sorry for the massive essay, didn't realize I had written so much in the OP Blush

OP posts:
JeremyKylesPetProject · 18/09/2012 13:37

They agreed it was cold and although they couldn't make it warm for you it'll ensure future clients don't have a bad experience. I don't think you were treated badly though. I wonder if anyone complained of coldness in the past? If so they shouldn't be using a room they can't warm up properly.

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