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loud building work next door

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goodstuffhappens · 14/09/2012 20:07

In May, our neighbour came to tell us they were starting a big building project. She told us it would go on throughout June and they were moving out accordingly. Very sadly, her husband has motor neurone disease and the house is being rebuilt internally to suit his disability.

When the building started, the noise was absolutely terrible. The drilling meant that we couldn't hold a conversation downstairs and the banging meant that no one could sleep/nap (I have a 19 month old daughter). We were (IMO) extremely patient and understanding. We recognised their very sad circumstances and saw that our needs were not nearly as great as theirs.

However, it's now well into September and the noise is continuing. The drilling is so bad that friends/visitors have commented on it and we cannot stay in during the day. They work past 1 on a Saturday (against the rules) and on a Sunday (also against the rules). We initially allowed this as we were trying to be compassionate.

This week, my daughter has not been sleeping well and I am 8 months pregnant, therefore rest is very important. At 7.30 this evening, I could still hear banging. I went to see the builders and they dismissed me by saying there would be no more banging. When I went back when the banging started again, the door was locked.

The owner of the house ignores all of our phone calls about the matter (although is very friendly when we see her) and so I feel completely powerless.

Perhaps I am being very unreasonable and perhaps it is just exhaustion and the end of a pregnancy but surely this isn't the way it works? Are we just expected to stay out all day whilst the noise happens 7 days a week? I am beyond desperate.
Help and advice gratefully received!

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mistlethrush · 14/09/2012 20:09

Did they need planning consent for the work? If so there might be controls on when they are allowed to work.

If not, get on to your Council's noise nuisance department and ask their advice.

CaptainVonTrapp · 14/09/2012 20:11

Sounds absolutely awful. Contact Environmental health at your council. They will take it seriously. Although they may move slowly. We all have to have work done sometimes but throughout the weekend and at unsociable hours is unacceptable. What on earth have they been doing for so long?

missymoomoomee · 14/09/2012 20:14

Contact the council they will put you in touch with the right department, I don't think YABU at all, the builders are cheeky shits locking the door after you complained.

whats4teamum · 14/09/2012 20:23

You have all my sympathy. We lived with six months of banging, swearing, drilling, non compliance with party wall regulations while next door rebuilt their house. One half arsed apology when they wanted me to agree to painting part of my property their colour. Now they have moved in we have to tolerate their dog barking and a house which sounds like an echo chamber.

I think you have been very tolerant and understanding of their situation. With a baby on the way you need your peace and quiet. Do you have an address you could write to them and put your side across? I know it is easy to be brushed aside when you verbally complain.

I agree you should contact the council to clarify your position.

I don't understand why some people think it is acceptable to treat their neighbours this way. We all have to do work on our property but why not keep channels of communication open and do everything possible to minimise misery to those that live around you. Hope it all finishes soon. Good luck.

goodstuffhappens · 14/09/2012 20:28

thank you so much everyone. whats4tea... your post was comforting in that I realised I wasn't being unreasonable but the thought of another months of this has made me feel quite faint!

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JamieandTheMagicTorch · 14/09/2012 20:37

You sound entirely reasonable. Are the couple living there?

goodstuffhappens · 14/09/2012 20:44

no they are not. I don't know where they are living but seem to stay with friends. aghhhh feel so so stressed!

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JamieandTheMagicTorch · 14/09/2012 20:49

Do they know what is going on - are they being misinformed by the builders?

JamieandTheMagicTorch · 14/09/2012 20:50

There are lovely Planning people on MN who might be able to help

mistlethrush · 14/09/2012 23:17

Jamie - I'm a planning person - but if this is all permitted development and they didn't need consent, its not a planning matter (even if they had to get building consent)

goodstuffhappens · 15/09/2012 08:06

Mistle... we did give building consent....not sure if that makes any difference?.... TIA

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JamieandTheMagicTorch · 15/09/2012 09:20

mistle - Aaah I see.

But I think there are council rules about noise at certain times of the day

SoleSource · 15/09/2012 11:16

Total sympathy for you. There must be something you can do. All the best.

mistlethrush · 17/09/2012 09:46

Jamie - there are, but that's under environmental health or environmental protection, not planning. If there was no planning consent given, no conditions could be attached to it that are enforceable by the planning team.

mistlethrush · 17/09/2012 09:47

Oh - and Goodstuff - unless you are the Council's Building Regulation team, you cannot give building regulation approvals. If they wrote to you under the party wall act, you may have had an agreement under that - but they would still need to apply for building regulation approval.

Jins · 17/09/2012 10:22

Be prepared for more of this if the proposed amendments to permitted development goes ahead

I agree with mistle - it's a noise nuisance issue and you need to go to the appropriate department

JamieandTheMagicTorch · 18/09/2012 19:33

Oh yes, that's what I meant. Didn't word it v well.

Good luck OP. Chronic Noise is very upsetting

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