AIBU to not go out with DH tonight?

[mrsboring]

AIBU to back out of a night out with DH that we agreed to go to for a friend's party, because I am pregnant and too tired? I feel really bad for disappointing him and messing him and the friend about.

So long as you don;t mind DH going without you.

The friends will be ok with just your DH, won't they?

I am sure you're dh and friend would understand. Its not like the night out has to be cancelled. Your just not going.

I don't mind if he goes without me, I want him to have a good time. I just want to put my feet up.

I don't think you're unreasonable.

However someone came on here asking was her DP unreasonable for turning round and saying he didn't want to got to her friends. Everyone said he was unreasonable and called him every name under the sun.

We all know there's lots of double standards on here though

He's annoyed at me for not saying anything yesterday when he rsvp'd. I think I'm going to have to go at least for an hour. Sodding central London on a Friday night.

As long as you phone the friend and are honest then there is not a problem.

If it is not because of the reasons you have mentioned but because you don't like the guy that is different.

FGS just don't go. Life's too short to go to dull parties in central London when you're pregnant and tired.

No I like the friend, it's a great event. I'm just being lame because my DH didn't immediately say "oh that's ok honey, you stay home and rest," so I feel guilty. I want validation! Thanks for telling me I'm not being a bad wife.