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To think they should leave dead kings where they are?

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Goldmandra · 12/09/2012 22:37

and other people who died a long time ago?

How long does someone have to be dead before it's OK to dig them up again?

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Goldmandra · 13/09/2012 00:28

It's all a bit bizarre really.

I don't even know why it bothered me so much as I couldn't care less what happens to my body when I die as long as long as whoever I leave behind isn't upset by it.

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SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 13/09/2012 00:34

There are many places, where you dont get to be buried forever. You get a grave when you are newly dead, but after a certain length of time, you get exhumed, and your bones stacked in a charnel house.

TunipTheVegemal · 13/09/2012 06:51

PatronSaint - it would be hard to have international legislation when different cultures & religions view it so differently.

Goldmandra · 13/09/2012 08:20

I'f forgotten about that Saggy.

Maybe IAMBU to think he's got a right to be left in peace then. Lots of people seem to get dug up for various reasons.

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LRDtheFeministDragon · 13/09/2012 08:22

There are lots of guidelines about digging up bodies. My department are 1/4 archaeologists and they do masses of training about being respectful. I think they would work very carefully.

I don't imagine he would mind anyway. Medieval people were mad keen on chopping up dead bodies and burying a bit here, a bit there, digging them up, popping them into reliqueries, burying them again, making pretty patterns with bones ... they didn't have the same ideas about dead bodies that we do. I would put money on that he would think it was respectful to be re-buried properly, rather than minding about being disturbed.

It's like that bit in Hamlet with the gravedigger being all matter-of-fact about how long it takes to decompose a corpse, and when you have to clear out the bones for the next person - people were much more in touch with all of this stuff, and not too fussed about it. Just google 'transi tomb' to see.

Goldmandra · 13/09/2012 09:00

"Medieval people were mad keen on chopping up dead bodies and burying a bit here, a bit there, digging them up, popping them into reliqueries, burying them again, making pretty patterns with bones"

LRD that made me laugh Grin

You're right of course, although I may pass on Googling 'transitomb' Shock

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LRDtheFeministDragon · 13/09/2012 09:04

I lurve my medieval dead people. I am glad it made you laugh. Smile

Though, people still do it I guess. A year or two ago DH's church had a relic sent to them so everyone could visit, and you can go and kiss the bones if you feel so inclined. Not my thing at all, but it does go to show that not everyone has the same attitude to death.

The best opening line of a historical novel ever has to be from The Bone Peddler: 'In the crypt of the Abbey Church at Hallowdene the monks were boiling their Bishop...'

WhatYouLookingAt · 13/09/2012 09:04

A gross invasion of who's privacy? They are long dead, they don't exist anymore, they don't have any privacy to be invaded. Just a bag of bones.

Goldmandra · 13/09/2012 11:12

"A gross invasion of who's privacy?"

I know it sounds bizarre. It was not something I had ever thought about before. It was just an emotion which hit me as I looked down, as if we were all standing round staring at a complete stranger in bed or something.

It wasn't logical at all. He/she was long dead.

Maybe it was because our involvement was driven by curiosity rather than performing a service or ritual we think of as laying to rest.\

We preserve the privacy and dignity of the recent dead. Why not those who have been in the ground a while? How long is long enough?

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MyNameIsInigoMontoya · 14/09/2012 15:15

I would be quite pleased at the thought of someone digging up (what was left of) me in a few hundred years for research, provided there was something interesting enough about me for them to bother!

Doubt I will ever be Queen of England though, so they might not be interested in my relatively unexciting life...

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