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to ask why people don't follow the 'usual' complaint system?

27 replies

juniper904 · 11/09/2012 22:05

If I order a pizza, and it's late, I call the branch. I talk to an employee, and they pass me onto a manager who deals with my issue and offers a discount next time etc. I would not contact head office.

If I am in Tesco and an offer doesn't go through the till, I go to customer service. I would not contact head office.

In most walks of life, people complain to the next one up in the chain of command.

So why is this not true with parents and schools? Why do most parents on MN seem to go straight to the head teacher rather than talking to the teacher directly? Doesn't the teacher deserve the right to defend/ explain his/her actions?

In my experience, if a parent goes to the head, then the head tells the staff off. The head rarely listens to the staff member explaining their side. This works well for parents, I suppose, but maybe the member of staff has a reason...?

So, when parents have an issue with a teacher, why can't they just tell them?

OP posts:
JumpingThroughMoreHoops · 11/09/2012 22:40

Primarys round these parts are 3 form entry, N>Y6, 8 year groups so 27 classes of 30+.

mum4041 · 11/09/2012 22:50

Our teachers are just not available. They aren't at the door at drop off or pick up time. If you need to speak to them, they give you an appointment which can be ten days away. I think if it were urgent, I'd probably try the head rather than wait ten days.

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