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To think saying this to children is unacceptable?

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PenguinBear · 11/09/2012 18:19

It quite upset me to hear this shouted. They are year 3/4 mixed class and some are barely 7. If your child's teacher shouted "go away" quite meanly at them would you be upset? The tone was really quite spiteful and it was like she had no time for them. Plus some of them are not getting on with their work as they don't understand and are too scared to ask her again.

What would best course of action be bearing in mind this teacher is deputy head.

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PenguinBear · 11/09/2012 18:19

SAYING*

Sorry, on my phone!

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MarysBeard · 11/09/2012 18:20

Not necessarily. Would need to know the context really.

Ilovedaintynuts · 11/09/2012 18:22

It would depend on the context.
If it was a normally nice teacher having a difficult day I wouldn't think much at all. Kids can be really annoying.
I'm assuming you have more concerns than this one isolated incident?

LeeCoakley · 11/09/2012 18:23

What went on before? Were they supposed to be getting on with their work? Had they been buzzing round demanding attention? Did they not listen the first 100 times?

PenguinBear · 11/09/2012 18:23

I do dairy nuts but if I post it all here it could identify me very quickly!

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lisaro · 11/09/2012 18:33

If it's come from the child I'd try to find out more before making any judgement.

AllHailTheOlympiansMumsnet · 11/09/2012 19:14

NB we have edited this thread title to make sense
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recall · 11/09/2012 19:20

not a nice way to address children

ClippedPhoenix · 11/09/2012 19:27

Yes, it would definitely depend on all manner of things.

How do you know that some of the children are not understanding and too frightened to ask? I'm guessing here that you are a TA maybe? I wouldn't necessarily go on what a child said.

OutragedAtThePriceOfFreddos · 11/09/2012 19:28

You need to give the context otherwise it's impossible to answer your (edited) question.

JeuxDEnfants · 11/09/2012 19:30

There's no need to address anyone like that.

FermezLaBouche · 11/09/2012 19:32

Totally depends.

After explaining something clearly and succinctly, only to have the one child who was twatting around not listening come up to you and say "I don't geddit" might well provoke a firm "go away" from me...

QuangleWangleQuee · 11/09/2012 19:33

Maybe the children had been told they needed to be sitting down and they disobeyed? They could have put their hand up instead if they needed help.

Breathoffreshair · 11/09/2012 19:36

I wouldn't like to hear that being shouted at young children.
Maybe she was just having a bad moment though.

purplehouse · 11/09/2012 19:38

Depends really. It isn't particularly nice but I wouldn't be too worried about someone speaking to my 6yo ds like that. I think that even children have to learn that there are some people who aren't very nice in this world.

However if kids are actually terrorised and afraid to ask for help with their work, then that is too much.

Kayano · 11/09/2012 19:39

Sometimes Kids push boundaries with a new teacher, and they need to know the teacher is firm and will not pander to attention seeking

Need the context op

bringmesunshine2009 · 11/09/2012 19:39

Oh crap. Another bad mum expression to strike from the list Blush

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