to not understand the issue with photos

[crazybutterfly]

Ds (10 months) attended his first party today. One of the organisers conmented on how cute he looked ib jyst his nappy (I'd stripped him down for food) and party hat, but followed this up with a conment about not being allowed to take photos. When i queried why she explsined that to do so would require them to get get written consent off all parents (party was organised by church).

Also, earlier in the week when completing forms etc ready fo ds to start nursery it was explained to me that they take photos of the children doing activites etc to hmgo in learming records and that they used to sebd dvds of these home but since somepne put them on facebook they have had to stop.

So aibu:

1. not to understand the whole permission thing
2. not get what the issue with facebook

"Ultimately though you don't really need to understand it, you just need to respect it. Some people don't want their/their children's image online, so just don't do it"
and that
If you like it all up on facebook noones really stopping you, waiting 10 seconds for someone to move out of the background isn't stopping you from photographing your own kids!