shagging or absent and babysitting...? (WWYD)

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Just went to the neighbour's house to pick up DD (3) from our friend's house, who took her and their DD (6) to soft play this morning (am abroad, is afternoon here). Their DD opened the door. Both girls curled up on sofa. No adults anywhere to be seen. Main bedroom door open, no noise...? I imagine they are in bed. Their room next to living room. Just popped back to consult with DH.

Should I

a) announce loudly that I am there, where are you...? And raise them if there, if not take DDs here

b) Just take the girls, leave a note

c) take my DD, leave theirs

?

Announce loudly, then if they aren't there take both girls. Simple.

d) Ask their DD to go and wake her parents?

Yep. Walk in calling out your DD's name and the neighbour's. If no response take both children back to yours and ask what happened when she appears.

did you no ask one of the children where the parents were?

Just shout "HELLO" and prob don't let them babysit again.

Ask the 6 year old where the parents are?

I'd be pissed off with either if they were supposed to be watching my toddler, did you leave her there?!

I doubt she would be shagging with the bedroom door open. Perhaps she is in the toilet?

Ask their dd to tell them you are there.

Well what happened?

What did you do?

Tell me if I got hold of the wrong end of the stick.

Child with neighbour. Parent goes to collect child. See's child. Doesn't see neighbour. Goes home minus child to check what she should do.

Why would you leave your 3yo in a house where you can't see an adult?

Why would you assume they were shagging? Very odd.

Get back there, shout loudly you are here, and if you don't see her, ring her on her mobile (assuming you have her number). If still no response, leave note, taking both kids back to yours.

The six year old is old enough to tell you where her mum is?

Sorry, forgot to update. DH went back (they are just next door) and they were both there. Not sure what happened

I asked where they were 6 year old said "oh I don't know, they were here a minute ago, maybe they are in the bedroom". I said very loudly that I'd be back in a minute, partly to discuss with DH, and partly to give them a chance to get dressed if they were in bed. I think perhaps they had been in bed, or maybe one in the shower one in the loo? Or something?

Thought they were in bed because of their DD's response and because we live in open plan houses where you can see all the rooms from the front room - they weren't in any of the other rooms but the main bedroom had the door slightly ajar but I couldn't see in, so they could have been in there.

they could have been talking, or tidying? Why assume they are in bed while babysitting?

Maybe they were both in the bedroom having a chat or putting bedding on the bed. I wouldn't think that they were shagging or even asleep.

I don't know. I just did

Oh I doubt they were cleaning, they have a maid

And I suppose because it was obvious I was there and they didn't come out to say hi

Why didnt you just take your child?

WWID?

Well I wouldn't have leapt to the assumption they were shagging, I know that

Probably I'd have shouted out 'I'm back' and waited for them to reply. Something like that.

I don't really know. I was baffled and embarrassed, unsure what to do with their DD.

Why did you think that you needed to do anything with their daughter.

She´s 6-they were in the next room!

But I wasn't sure if they were or not. Their DD was really vague. I thought they probably were but wasn't sure. Just felt a bit odd about it.

Turning it on its head, if someone came into your house and you were in the bedroom, heard them come in and speak to your child, you'd shout out, right? Or get up and say hello. Wouldn't you?