It lovely that they want to be fathers, but when you have children, you always have to sacrifice in some way, whether that means not always getting so far in your career, of not seeing your kids enough.
Working dads face a constant juggling act of trying to put in the hours at work, then feeling guilty because they are not raising their own children, not to mention all the cooking, cleaning, and laundry that faces them at the end of a day at the office.
Maybe men just have to accept that they can't always have it all. Perhaps they have too much choice these days, and they have to face facts: being a dad means having to always put your children first.
A lot of men have chosen to cut their hours, or come back from paternity leave to jobs that pay less, or have fewer demands on them. Sure, this means that women often surpass them career-wise, but someone has to look after the children.
And, after all, companies can't be expected to pay and pay, just because men choose to have children.
Sound reasonable?