Boyfriend has just arrived at 1am with four friends from work in tow (they've been at the pub). I'm still up, but with no bra/makeup, clay facemask on, nursing a wee cup of tea and enjoying watching the telly quietly. If I had wanted to go out tonight, I would have gone to the pub with them. I was looking forward to a quet night in.
To make things worse, our other friend is staying with us just now and sleeping in our usual bedroom while we sleep on the living room floor (there is a sensible reason for this!). I can't even go to bed for that reason - they're all sitting in the living room chatting. Our flat is very small, with thin walls, and I can hear everything they're saying (atm one of them is singing Danny Boy).
Boyfriend messaged me twenty minutes before he arrived, saying "am I alright to bring people round". I replied as soon as I got it, saying I'd rather he didn't. He didn't get the message until he got home and I pointed it out to him.
Boyfriend has apologised and suggested that I get dressed/put on makeup and join them. I don't want to get dressed at 1am! I want to watch the telly and go to sleep!
I look like a dick now too, because bf insisted on having a discussion about it with me (he's a bit drunk) so it looks like I was giving him a bollocking in the bedroom for bringing friends home.
I just think it's inconsiderate of him. If he had told me earlier that they'd be coming back I would have either stayed dressed, gone to the pub with them or got my own bedroom ready. I just want some advance notice that it's a possibility.
Grrr
rant over :)