Warning this is incredibly petty,My friend is organising a get together of school friends, we are all 22-25 and dont see each other much anymore since work,family ect took over.
We will probably go to local pub for a few hours in the daytime, she has invited someone i went out with when i was 15, we were best friends up until our 20's and he is my sons godfather.
I havent seen him for over a year because his new girlfriend didnt like our relationship and thought it was weird that he still got on so well with his ex, she basically told him if he carried on being friends with me or seeing his godson she wouldnt stay with him. She has sent me abusive messages on facebook accusing me of trying to steal him despite me having a partner, and 3 children ( 2 SC's). Since then we have had no contact, deleted number,blocked on facebook(sorry i know its the devil!) and no word to his godson on his birthdays,christmas.
Do i go to the get together as its a chance to see all my old friends together or stay away because if she comes with him im not going to feel comfortable all afternoon. She was very agressive with her messages and said alot of personal things that my supposed friend had told her about my life ect, at the time she was messaging my mum was in intensive care after a major op ( she has cancer and had to have half a lung removed) so i wasnt very receptive with arguments just told her to do what she has to to save her relationship hence why we no longer speak.
I really want to see my friends, but dont want to see this girl. Or make it so my old friend cant go to the get together just because im there :(