.. to ask you to knock some sense into me?

[hazchem]

So we had a very very rough night with DS (18 months) lots of tears, coughing, vomiting, on off feeding then finally got up at about 6 ish as no point staying in bed. Managed to get DS back to sleep at about 9:30 but he woke again. Cue more coughing crying on off sucking not going back to sleep.

OH says I'll take him to the park and have a sleep. If it gets to 12:30 We will have lunch. So I have a sleep wake up text OH that am up it's about 12:15 so I say I'll have lunch and shower and stuff. Thinking I should go get ready as we are meant to be meeting BIL &SIL at about 2ish. I have lunch, shower, try and call no answer. Try and call again. He's out to lunch with BIL&SIL already and they are almost done.

I know I should be really pleased to have had a few extra hours sleep but i feel hacked of as we were planning to go up to BIL&SIL and then have soem nice afternoon drinks in a pub. I just feel like once again i get to spend a day in the flat not talking to any other adults.

I know I'm being a bit selfish but i feel pissed off. I though writing might help so I'm not grumpy when OH gets back.

just go out and meet them all refreshed from nap & shower

But did he not say if it gets to 12.30pm he would go for lunch?

And since you texted at 12.15pm to say you would shower and have lunch I expect he thought you would just make your own way to meet him and BIL/SIL?

Or am I wrong?

I will admit to being a bit confused!

And what maddening said!

You had a lovely sleep because he took your DC out!

Mind you, whilst I can see that some fresh air in the park would do your DS some good I'm not sure that an afternoon in the pub would? Or am I being unfair?

They are on the way back.

I thought when he said he'd have lunch that he was having a picnic type thing at the park.

salmon True an afternoon in the pub might not be so good but we would have been in an outside pub and walked up.

Oh and the meeting BIL &SIL at 2 was loose plan so I had no idea where to meet them.

Sorry this is confusing and mighty dull. I'm not normally such a boring grumpy bitch but feel a bit like that today

Oh well, at least you had a good rest and maybe you can do something else together?

Oh I'm not saying it's dull. Not at all. I was very grumpy when my DC had bad nights and usually I was spoiling for a fight.
With my own shadow if needs be! DH is irritatingly calm.

Yes salmotrutta we can do something else together and now somehow a feel a little less arrgggggg. Thank you. Oh and thank you maddening also.
I'm putting the kettle on fancy a ?

See! All's well that ends well!

... I'd love a coffee. Ta!