hi, i have a friend who really helps me out. with decorating and that sort of thing. she likes doing it she is one of them people that cant stop once she has started. and she has loads of ideas about what we are going to do to my house wich i dont mind.
but somethings do my head in such as when we are stripping the wall paper. she will do 3 walls, whilst im only on my first and then i get omg thats all you have done i have done 3 walls, but she forgets that every 2 mins is can you get me.. can you do this, can you do that. so im never just left to just get on with what im doing.
today i did not get up until just before 12. and she knew this. she rings me at 1pm going have you have dinner yet. when i say no she like oh why not we are eating ours now. i will give you a ring after and we will be up. i have not even started my dinner. i dont know how she thinks i can get up at 12 and be eating dinner by 1pm. i need to tisy my house as it looks like a bomb but i want to do it on my own.
There are somethings i could not have done without her and she has been a god send. but i get a bit fed up with the put downs or because i do things different to her. i think she likes to take charge of things. because i have been so easy going with things its now hard to be more assertive towards her.