to think that this is escalating.

[carernotasaint]

i posted a while ago about problems my DN is experiencing at home. Her SDs behaviour is now getting weirder and weirder. Hes tipped the contents of the bin in her bed. calls her an ignorant pig because she spent last night in her room after being a bit tired from work.
shes also told me hes losing patience with his biological kids now too and has lost his temper on more than one occasion.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1524360-Can-i-have-some-advice-please

my DN has also told my mum that her mum has the pin no of her bank account and also opens all my DNs mail.

This sounds really awful - the SD is definitely abusive if this is true. How old are his biological children?

His biological childrens age range is from twelve down to six. My DN is 17.

i would be very concerned about this but you do have to concider a few things.

1.is he telling you what he thinks you want to hear i.e slagging mum off?

1. are they just a ultra weird family who police all under 18's.

3.did he tip the bin in a fucked up way to highlight a point i.e him... have you emptyed the bin? dn...yes. him... "are you sure" dn... yes. ok then lets go tip it up over your bed. (weird i know but some people think stuff like that is ok)

Im not gonna do anything yet. Im just gonna keep an eye on things. Like you Sock im concerned but dont want to go wading in with my size 5s yet.