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AIBU to not want to go to friends birthday

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LeChatteRouge · 25/08/2012 10:03

Its my friends birthday in a few weeks and we had planned a night out. Us and other friends. Now someone is going who I don't talk to so I don't want to go. But my friend who's birthday it is told me just to come along anyway.

The reson me and this women don't talk is because we fell out a few months back. We was good friends till this. Someone nearly did something sexual to my dd who was 7 at the time. In her house. Nothing happen to my dd thankfully. And I did report this to the right people. My friend who birthday it is is my closes friend so I spoke to her about it at the time for advice. She said I need to tell this women who house it was about it and what I was going to do.

I did this and not in a nasty way. Even tho I was so mad. I held it back. The women who's house it was is very close to this person involed. Me and her have not spoken since not because of what happen but because she is piss off with me for speaking to my other friend about this and I should have kept it between us. She knows I am going. I wouldn't mind if it was something silly between us. But all I think about is what could of happen to my DD and she just thinks its nothing as nothing actually happen to her.

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tethersend · 25/08/2012 10:21

Don't go to the birthday if you don't want to.

That sounds very frightening for you and your DD.

Does the person present a danger to other children?

tethersend · 25/08/2012 10:24

You are within your rights to tell anybody and everybody about abuse- keeping it secret can be to collude with the abuser.

How did you find out what happened?

LeChatteRouge · 25/08/2012 10:32

My Dd she didn't understand and just come out with it whilst I was washing up. Lucky she told me the same day. She just ask me about it like a question. There is no chance it could happen to anyone else not at the moment anyway.

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