An old friend of mine rang me today. She firstly warned me that it might offend me but she's been asked to find out if what she's about to ask is true. I said ok fine go ahead ask.
Another old friend of mine saw me walking through town recently and wondered if I was pregnant. Instead of asking me to my face or by text etc she told her friends, who then I have just found out told my sister that I was in fact pregnant. Honest truth is that I'm not. Since being on the depo I've put on weight I admit and yes I'm not too happy with where the weight is but I always thought since no one had commented on it and in fact a few other people have said how much better I look that it was a good thing. It really shook me when my friend asked if I was pregnant. My other friend had gone round telling people I'm pregnant without asking first. So not only do I now have to clear these rumours I also spent the day feeling sick and upset with myself for getting to the point where people think and agree I look fatter. Not one person she told came to me or even considered the fact that people do put on weight at some point in their lives. I'm so angry. I'm hurt. And also worried that I should be doing something about my weight now.