I'll try to keep this short...
Recently moved into a new rented flat with DP, our DD who's 2 and our dog. Lots of decoratin cleaning to do however flat is finally looking like a home with one more room to decorate.
Tonight we come home from PIL and have a lot to get done for SIL's wedding on Saturday, bags to be packed as were staying in a hotel, clothes to pick up etc and the whole flat had to been cleaned as paint was everywhere and dirt was getting dragged around we agreed that when we got home we would make dinner, bath and bed DD and get everything done together. So we get home and DP says I'm off to walk the dog will be back in an hour, I say please only be an hour we have so much to get done before tomorrow he says ok.
Then comes home three hours later and says oh the flat looks nice, glad all the paint come up of the wooden floors, oh and I see DD is in bed, took abit longer as i bumped into my mate mike, I felt so pissed off I replied with of course she's in bed it's 9:30 at night, you were gone 3 hours thanks for leaving me to do everything just like last week (he done exactly the same last week when I was painting). Turns into a argument and he's says I'm being unreasonable to be pissed off and I should have just left the flat how it was if I didn't wana clean it.
So I walked away and got a bit upset, to then see he's phone on the side light up with a text from he's mate mike saying thanks for meeting up tonight was a laugh, like old times so I read the text (me and dp have always been open with eacothers iphones) and see that they had actually arranged earlier to meet up at 6ish tonight.
So who's being unreasonable?
I feel like he's been so selfish to leave me to do all the flat, cook, bath DD, bed DD, sort all the flat when he's had a eve with a friend and I can't even remember last time I went out without DD.