AIBU to go away without dp?

[SpottedGurnard]

I am going to my parents house 300 miles away today. I have an exam on saturday to sit and was really looking forward to spending some time with everyone. I have been signed off work for stress and need to just get out of here.

I was really looking forward to catching up with old friends who I havnt seen for many years since getting together with dp- he is always around and I think my friends are getting fed up of the fact we are always together (me too).

DP is working so I thought I had planned it right. But no. Hes announced hes going to get a train up (£60- using up the emergency money I put in his account as he hasnt been paid for new job yet).

I did say I wanted to catch up with friends and spend some time on my own but he mocked me and asked if they have answered my message yet. He knows full well Ive been really down because ive lost touch with everyone and bit the bullet last night to send out a message to try to restore things.

Aibu to just want to get away?

he sounds like an inadequate fucker

why the hell are you with him, if you are seeing all these red flags ?

get out now, before you get any more "interweaved"

you should also be aware of the fact he will have engineered how "interweaved" you are, to make it harder for you to dump his sorry arse

ditto, the attempts to isolate you from family and friends

dump him now and consider any money or possessions you have to lose as unfortunate collateral damage, but worth it to get shut of him

Just do me a favour, and read this thread

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1541110-To-stop-making-my-OH-an-evening-meal-even-though-he-works-60hour-weeks-and-Im-a-SAHM

And tell me if you recognise even a tiny bit of your own situation in there, or if you can see that your own situation may become this OP's.

Then picture what your life may be like in 5 year's time with this man, possibly with DCs in the picture.

Then take it from there.