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AIBU?

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To think this is a bit grubby...

63 replies

MrsHelsBels74 · 20/08/2012 14:35

Girl on Jeremy Kyle this morning had unprotected sex with 3 men in one night. Is it just me or is that a bit dirty, pregnancy & STD risks aside?

And yes, I know IABU for watching JK in the first place.

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squoosh · 20/08/2012 15:09

I'd only go to a sex club if I could be guaranteed it would be wall to wall Ryan Goslings and Henry Cavills.

I have a funny feeling most sex clubs aren't. Grin

TheCunningStunt · 20/08/2012 15:09

Not a choice you would make, but doesn't make it shocking someone else would do it....as long as its safe sex, I don't see an issue. As for watching JK....Wink

TheBigJessie · 20/08/2012 15:10

Sometimes people call me liberal. Sometimes people say the opposite.

The chronological period between sexual partners doesn't really strike me as a moral issue, that's all.

Emmielu · 20/08/2012 15:10

It's not something I'd do either but that's my personal choice.

I like to leave that kinda thing to the people who enjoy it safely & have the stamina Blush

yellowraincoat · 20/08/2012 15:13

squoosh ah, you need to have your eyes opened to "selective" sex clubs...

slowestwildebeast · 20/08/2012 15:13

I'm not morally outraged. I find it funny that those on JK get called 'grubby' sex swing mn people are not.

iknowwho · 20/08/2012 15:14

You've had sex with 5 men in a night

Most of the time I can't be bothered to have sex with one man in any five nights!!!

yellowraincoat · 20/08/2012 15:15

I wouldn't say anyone is "grubby" in this situation. How long are you meant to leave to lapse between sexual partners before you are considered morally pure?

AGilchrist · 20/08/2012 15:16

Damn you OP. I am now wondering if any of them were the dad. :)
its not normal to have sex with 3 guy in one night, without protection and/or showers.
All of them are grubby as each other.

TheBigJessie · 20/08/2012 15:17

Well, the distinguishing factor is presumably the lack of condom, which resulted in baby, and then they all went on JK to determine paternity.

People (presumably) checking each other for herpes outbreaks and using condoms aren't very grubby in comparison.

JustFabulous · 20/08/2012 15:19

Was it one, two ir three that was the dad?

slowestwildebeast · 20/08/2012 15:21

Still on the gubbyometer. Condoms don't protect against everything. They can still split. Oral sex with 5 people?
Not sure what a decent time is. I'm not morally pure so I can't really judge, but I have. :(

squoosh · 20/08/2012 15:23

Oh yellowraincoat are there secret ones that are by invitation only? Hmmm.

MrsHelsBels74 · 20/08/2012 15:26

I don't have a problem with people having as many sexual partners as they want as long as everyone is safe & willing, it's the not cleaning between partners I think is grubby.

And yes I would probably get a rude awakening at a sex club Grin

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yellowraincoat · 20/08/2012 15:26

squoosh well, I'm sure there's lots of secret ones, after parties and so on.

But there's loads that you have to send a picture to and someone will size you up and decide if you are attractive enough.

TheBigJessie · 20/08/2012 15:27

Oral sex with five people? I presume multiple dental dams would be used. (You can make one from a condom.)

Yes, condoms can still split. That's why regular STI checks are also important. I admit, I didn't mention those before.

squoosh · 20/08/2012 15:30

Oh that sounds much better. I'm all up for a bit of body fascism in these situations! No one's going there for the personalities are they.

YoullLaughAboutItOneDay · 20/08/2012 15:31

Five men in one night? God the energy and effort involved. Solid -please tell me you didn't have young children at this point, because my head might just explode given how infrequently DH and I manage to get the energy together...

squoosh · 20/08/2012 15:32

Whatever about having sex with five men in one night, the effort involved in five separate blow jobs . . .. . . . . no, no, no.

slowestwildebeast · 20/08/2012 15:32

I have enough entertaining 1 penis, the last thing I'd want is 5 coming towards me, like a weird red arrow style formation of penis!

squoosh · 20/08/2012 15:33

slowestwildbeast I'm picturing you doing magic tricks and telling gags to the penis you're entertaining.

MrsHelsBels74 · 20/08/2012 15:35

I think it was number 2 who was the father (sounds like Blind Date but without our Graham for a quick reminder).

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slowestwildebeast · 20/08/2012 15:36

Graham's there, he's a genius don't you know?

MrsHelsBels74 · 20/08/2012 15:37

He is a genius obviously but I don't think he's Cilla's Graham!

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Trazzletoes · 20/08/2012 15:42

Just had to put the episode on catch up! Hoping DS stays asleep a wee while!