... Even if I have posted this on the wrong forum? I checked Childbirth and a couple of others, but they didn't seem right. I'd be really grateful for some ideas/advice.
My best friend has just had twins, both really healthy and happy and doing well 
. Mummy however isn't doing so well. Botched eCS, followed by another major surgery and all sorts of ongoing health problems. She's got some help coming in, but obviously I want to do all I can to support her. I've said that I'm on stand-by, but won't interfere unless she asks (which she has promised to do if she needs anything).
DH and I have talked about the obvious things (washing, shopping, feeding the cats, delivering wine), but can you think of anything that a non-Mum like me would overlook? She's a bit overwhelmed with emotion at the moment, it's been a hell of a month for her. I wondered about a good book or some dvd's as she can't move much. Due to her medical condition, she doesn't much feel like eating, so I don't think chocolate cake is the answer for once 
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I'm really grateful for anything you can suggest, I feel so desperately bad for her, but don't want to intrude until asked, so would like something light touch. She's so important to me, and I want to do the right thing, but am a bit all at sea as still ttc.
Apologies again for misusing the AIBU thread!