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to want to start a new career in horse riding

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Mum2Luke · 17/08/2012 16:13

I am 45, self-employed in one job as a childminder and employed by local council as a casual dinner lady. The childminding is all but drying up as there are not many people in work and the ones who are working either put their children in full-time day nurseries as the nurseries get funding for free sessions or Grannies look after them for free.

I really want to get back in the saddle and perhaps do the BHS exams but am not confident that I will be able to afford to do it.

Has anyone else completely changed their career in their 40's? I want to do t before I get too old and regret it.

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Booboostoo · 22/08/2012 19:09

No need to apologize! Hope you have a great time getting back into the swing of things!

Methe · 22/08/2012 19:14

having returned to riding this year after not riding for the best part of 10 years I can assure you that it is not like riding a bike! I was competent and experienced and had my own ponies but would now class myself as a confident novice.. my first few lessons were embarrassing!

Alameda · 22/08/2012 19:16

have you thought of equine dentistry? sorry if has already been mentioned

Mum2Luke · 02/09/2012 17:15

Well, my dh's friend's wife has 2 horses and said she will teach me all I need to know as far as Horse care and stable management while I do BHS Exams - woohoo, free riding too is a bonus Grin

She knows I can ride as I have ridden one of hers and all I need now is to sort some studying and practical work experience at our local equestrian centre.

Not sure if I would do equine dentistry although I would need to know something about horses' teeth.

Things are coming together at last!

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CakeBump · 02/09/2012 17:26

I have career changed several times and one of those was as an RDA groom.

I absolutely loved it, although the pay was crap, the job was great fun. I was only 27/28 though and I still found that the younger grooms (16 to 18) were far more fearless that I was with the horses. I didn't bounce any more and falling off was no joke.

I started to do my BHS exams too and got my Stage 2, however the thought of jumping huuuuge showjumping fences and cross country courses for my Stage 3 was terrifying, and I never put it for it.

It will be a long haul, and hard work for very little money, but if you have the courage and ability to get all the way to your BHSAI then go for it! :)

carabos · 02/09/2012 17:30

getting all the way to the BHSAI is to get half qualified. The full instructor's certificate is the BHSI.

CakeBump · 02/09/2012 18:18

Yes I understand that, if that is directed at me carabos, but once the OP has the AI she can at least look for an instructor's job if she doesn't want to continue to be a groom.

carabos · 02/09/2012 18:28

cake the OP can set up as a freelance riding instructor tomorrow if she likes. There is no requirement to be qualified, registered, insured or even able to ride. There are many people out there doing that and plenty of them are working in riding schools.

SamuelWestsMistress · 02/09/2012 18:35

It's hard work and it will take you many years but I don't see why not.

The hours you have to put in teaching can really be a laborious task and you need to pick the right establishment. The exams are harsh too, there really is no room for compromise and I do believe you need to have a very thick skin!!

CakeBump · 02/09/2012 18:36

Yes carabos, I'm not sure why you're trying to teach me to suck eggs?

Surely you can see that working for a reputable riding centre as an AI would probably be preferable to attempting to set up on your own or working at some dodgy establishment as an unqualified?

As you say, OP can set up as an unqualified tomorrow. However she has enquired as to the possibility of doing BHS exams, which leads me to presume she would at some point like a qualified instructors job.

CakeBump · 02/09/2012 18:38

"I do believe you need to have a very thick skin"

Samuel I was way more nervous for my BHS riding exams than I was for my degree!! Shook like a leaf! Couldn't agree more...

JRsandCoffee · 02/09/2012 19:23

Hello, entering the fray with some trepidation........

I've known a few people still doing yard work at your sort of age and really enjoying it but not that many, I guess it depends on the individual!!!

I would disagree with those who say better to groom than instruct, I'd go vice versa. Someone mature, clued up and with a good sense of safety and also empathy will always be valued as an instructor and those with the patience and knowledge to teach young children and nervous adults and bring them on sympathetically are not generally that thick on the ground. The money is better for teaching, full stop! I've freelanced as a groom/ rider/ instructor and the scale on which I charged for each thing was bigger from sh** shovelling up!! If you think you might enjoy it I would suggest that you take the time to watch lessons with someone you respect and see if it lights your fire, so to speak!

I think what has been said about the AI is a bit harsh, although I do believe that the qualification is given too much weight by many. However, I've got it and it was a really useful experience to go through, I've also got my stage 4 but neglected to put in for the exam for the teaching in the same run of exams which was stupid but the moment passed and I never got round to doing it, I wish I had. I have found those bits of paper very useful and the whole experience of doing the exams really made me think. So I would say all to the good. I would second the opinion of those who have said that equine degrees frequently (but not always) churn out desperately impractical graduates who fondly imagine that they will make thousands in a marvellously paid job......

Equine dentistry can be very physically demanding but is another option as someone suggested.

Finally I'm 38 and no longer work with horses. I still teach flatwork to friends if they ask but only if I trust them implicitly and no longer teach jumping as I am no longer insured. I still miss some aspects of it and look back on the many memories with such fondness that I consider it all over again and then remember the following which might be worth double checking you've considered....

Muddy fields on winter days are low on fun factor, particulalry when they involve changing rugs on unimpressed eventers.......

Everyone wants lessons/ grooms in the evenings and weekends......bit like I would, which currently would not work for me or anyone around me!

I bounce less easily than I did

Other people's nutters seem to be getting nuttier than I remember!!!

I'm pretty laid back and tend to think "oh well if boss lady wants it like that fair enough" but I've worked with a lot of people who were driven bonkers as they got older by seemingly inanane requests!!!

Sorry for the ramble, good luck whatever you decide Smile I've had some fab horsey jobs and to be honest if you get some experience behind you and look around and could offer some child care skills as well you might find a little gem out there for you! Despite the above I'd probably consider it again if my circumstances were different!

TheQueenOfDiamonds · 03/09/2012 01:25

I haven't read thge whole thread and I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, But YAB Unrealistic.

At the moment there is no money in horses, unless you're at the very top end.
I know fantastic horsemen and women who are selling their services ridiculously cheap now because people just aren't putting their hand in their pockets.

When you say "horse riding" what exactly do you mean? As if you mean riding other peoples horses, again even the very best are struggling.

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