Ok we don't have the best relationship and at times things are very difficult.
He pays maintenance through the CSA and has done for about 3 months for our dc's.
Dd is 7 and this morning I rang to say we're going for new uniform next Friday and could he put towards or at least pay for some shoes?
To which his reply was 'is that not what I pay u every month for?'
I said fine if that's how u see it I'll manage somehow and put the phone down.
Is it normal to get extra help for expensive times of the year? I do pay for brownies/Ice skating/ swimming and never ask for anything
AIBU?