Some MNers may have read my earlier thread about the weird spotting I got on Sunday night up to today - I was wondering if it was implantation bleeding. It turned out that it was an early miscarriage.
I have been trying to patch things up with my now ex partner since Saturday night after a silly argument that blew up out of proportion (him blanking me all day because he was stressed about something else, me waiting in wondering where he was, me issuing an ultimatum about him going missing at such a worrying time - not the first time he had done this - and him saying I had dumped him over nothing). He refused to answer the phone for 3 days, then yesterday he said he was going to call in the break at work and didn't do so.
I then texted him explaining what the doctors had said and how terrible I felt about yet another failed clomid cycle and asked him to call me. He didn't do so, but instead texted me all night saying if he sees me again he's going to want to have sex and that he can't sleep because he keeps thinking about sex. He even had the cheek to ask me if I wanted to have sex, knowing I'm still bleeding!
He then said he would call this morning and didn't do so. I am sick and tired of these phone games. I just wanted to meet in person to discuss this. This is how I would expect a 16 year old boy to behave, not a man more than twice that age. He is now offended because I told him to man up and try to face up to this.
I simply can not believe that someone could be so unfeeling in this situation. He knows how much I wanted this baby and he seemed to want it just as much. He knows how upset I am and how all this pain could be eased just by communicating. But instead he has chosen to bury his head in the sand.
I have been trying to rationalise and see the best of this situation and work out his behaviour, but my friends think he is simply - well, to quote exactly, "disgusting, misogynistic and not worth your precious time."
Where the hell do I go from here?