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Me and my other half have recently got back together after a split, although whilst on this split we were meeting occasionally however nothing more than a few kisses happened here and there and it was my decision not to take it any further I.e : get back together.
We planned a holiday to see if that would help us and help me be able to give it a proper go and he paid for it with me paying my half at the end of the month.
It never got to the holiday as we worked things out beforehand but we did have a Convo about anything that happened whilst apart and he denied seeing / sleeping / talking to anyone online etc and he denied all of the above.
Comes out that was all bullshit.
In the time apart, he had a friend he slept with a few times, he was also talking to her about us and searching dating websites trying to arrange dates although he didn't actually meet anyone.
I found out through his sister of all people and this was only a few weeks back.
At first he was devastated it had all come out and even said "you sleep with someone else if it will make you forgive me" but now fast forward a few weeks and he says he was wrong for lying when
Asked but he didn't cheat or actually do anything was wrong!
I think he did as he was constantly begging me to come back to him and I'd agreed to the holiday yet he was still sleeping with her.
To top it they carried on talking / texting after we got back together although he insists it was only as a friend about us and how glad he was it all worked out.
His sister said she deffo did know as she mentioned it to her so I don't think he was intending to carry on sleeping with her as if so why bother telling her.
Am I being unreasonable?