to feel a bit stabby at relative..

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And I don't even like the word stabby!!

Relative who I happen to know is a netmums'er (and it shows in real life too) has a son a year older than mine. EVERY family gathering bombards me with questions and unwanted advice about how I raise my son when all I want to do is relax and drink wine catch up with my family.

Am I a moody cow? Me and DS are getting on just great. I don't want all these 'handy tips'. I love parenting and my son is my life but does it have to be all I ever talk about?!

Just nod, smile, and say something like "We all have our own ways and methods :)" and then excuse yourself the next time she dishes out her hints and tips.

I think you're being a m

I know it must be really irritating, but could she just be trying to make a connection with you?

It must feel as though she thinks you're in need of the advice or something.

Just adopt the 1000 yard stare and don't say much back.

A what NameChange?? I need to know now

To be fair, why is she asking you if her DC is a year older than yours? She must be really insecure or seeking your aproval!

Chill and bask in the glory!!

I think the relative is asking about what the OP does and giving her unwanted advice about what she answers Mamma?

You're being a moody cow. Stop being rude.

( just for you agent)