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To feel sad about this?

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ReindeerBollocks · 12/08/2012 20:32

I had a miscarriage of a much wanted DC3 on weds (confirmed on Friday by a negative test as advised by HCP).

One of my best friends has just rang me to tell me that she is pregnant with her first baby. She found out on Friday. I am over the moon for her, she is a fantastic person and her baby will be every much loved by the couple (and me too). I was very upbeat on the phone and have also text her congratualate her and told her that if she needs anything to ring me.

However, now I feel a bit down and quite sad. And I feel horrendously guilty for feeling like this. I am so happy for her (and her Lovely DP), and She is unaware of my miscarriage and it will stay that way.

Am I ok to feel a bit sad? It feels like such a guilty feeling amidst much happiness. Please AIBU crowd, slap some sense into me!

OP posts:
flyoverthehill · 12/08/2012 23:15

I liked lovebunny 's idea you could do that somewhere special x

bonnieslilsister · 12/08/2012 23:28

When it happened to me I tried to remember it was my baby I wanted not someone elses but it is really hard when you get reminders. All of a sudden everyone seems to be pregnant.

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