Regular but have NC'd - fancied a change!
Basically, I've got PND and it's been getting better. Our relationship has gotten back on track, we're more intimate now than we've ever been and our son has brought my mother and me closer than we've ever been. But I'm apparently driving him "up the wall" over our wedding plans!
I like planning things. I don't care if it's five years off, or ten years off, or whatever. I'd be happy going down to a registry office tomorrow, but both his mother and my mother feel that a proper celebration is in order because of all we've been through.
In my "down time" (when DS is asleep and I've got a spare hour) I like to browse eBay for ideas, I've got a little "wedding scrapbook" of sorts, and it makes me happy to think about the big day, and to know that everything that could be sorted would be sorted. I don't bother him with it every thirty seconds or anything like that, but he just feels that it's pointless me doing it because it's not going to happen for a while, and we need to save up for it.
My point is that it makes me happy to think about silly things like balloons and place cards, and if it keeps me happy and it doesn't majorly impact his life in any way then he should just let me get on with it and let me be.
I just don't feel that there's anything wrong with me doodling ideas and thinking of colour schemes! What does everyone else think?