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To sometimes wish I could say what is really on mind

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whatmess · 11/08/2012 08:59

Went to the park yesterday and stupidly paid £2 for dd to go on a bouncy slide for 5mins. actually, dd was on the slide already when this women walked up and said that will be £2 please. As there was no sign beside it I assumed it would be free.
Anyway, dd is going through a a funny phase and has recently become petrified of slides after overhearing her nursery teachers talk about how they hurt themselves on one. So I paid up in the hope that the bouncy slide might encourage her. It didn't work she got stuck at the top, crying hysterically and I had to wiggle my 22 week pregnant belly up the darn thing to get her off. All this after about 2 mins tops.
At this point, dd notices the teacups and asks if she can have a go. No, I reply Mummy has no money left. More tears ensue and then the lady collecting the money (who has been stood right beside me listening to the conversation) turns to dd and says, "what would you like to do next? How about a ride on the teacups?" No thank you, I politely reply, when inside I want to scream, "Excuse me but could you please mind your own business and not make it even harder for me to get her away!"

Yes I know, it was my frustration at the whole situation and as I'm typing this I'm actually smiling, but really!

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HecateHarshPants · 11/08/2012 09:05

You CAN say what's on your mind. It would have been fine to say "Please don't. I've already had to rescue her from the top of the slide. She sees these things and wants to go on and then as soon as she's there - she's scared. If she goes on the teacups and you have to stop the ride after 30seconds - will you give me my money back?"

There is no reason why you can't say something. You can say it nicely, you can say it with a smile, but you can say it.

HecateHarshPants · 11/08/2012 09:06

well, if you had no money left, then not the last bit, but apart from that.

Pickgo · 11/08/2012 09:06

Well you DID say what was on your mind.

You politely ignored the fact that the stupid arse woman was trying to manipulate you into spending more money by directly speaking to your DD and said no.

You did good.

squeakytoy · 11/08/2012 09:15

I would have said to the woman "seeing as she didnt get her moneys worth on the slide, are the teacups the same price? oh good, she can go on them instead then cant she!"

let the woman explain her way out of that one..

whatmess · 11/08/2012 09:15

Sound advice Hectate, I just never seem to think of anything that eloquent in the actual situation.
And it was the fact that I felt she was trying to manipulate the situation that wound me up, but if I had been rude, I know I'd feel even worse afterwards.

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Glaringstrumpet · 11/08/2012 09:17

Hmmm, you need to think of other places to go which are free, museums? walk to feed ducks?

I remember taking my DCs to toysareus on a really rainy day - plenty to look at and space to run around - what a wally, DCs cried, whinged and pestered their way round, should have known better.

WildWorld2004 · 11/08/2012 09:18

If she heard your conversation about having no money maybe she was going to let your dd on for free. You should have asked that.

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