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Door knockers and chuggers targeting children?

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JumpingThroughHoops · 10/08/2012 16:58

Popped to work this morning to clear the post. Left the "children" 17,16,12 alone in bed with a note strict instructions not to kill each other in my absence.

Came back and the 12yo was reading a booklet. Thought nothing of it. Until I tidied up - he had a Watch Tower and a .

So I said - where did this come from?

16yo says - some woman at the door, she asked if you were in, I said no, I couldn't understand her (heavily accented Southern American), she kept going on about world violence. She asked if I wanted something to read, so I said yes to get rid of her.

So she clearly knew he was "a child" by asking for his mother.

Later, I went up to the mall with 17yo and BHF chuggers were out. Anyway, 17yo says, "those Jehovah people were here last week, giving us (us being him and his mates that range from 14-17) cards, telling us to go to church.

I do realise the 17yo probably hasn't quite imparted a verbatim conversation but the gist was there that JWs were targeting children in a shopping centre and giving information on their church and services.

Come to think of it, I've been on the Mall when the BNP have a stall up, targetting school children as they wait for their bus at the end of the day.

I'm not sure exactly what the British Heart Foundation were after, subscriptions maybe? But again they were clearly targeting teenagers, stepping in their path with a clip board. They were in a line, so if you tried to side step one, another would magically appear in front. I'd go so far as to align it to 'kettling'.

Fair enough, my children will discuss this sort of thing with me BUT vulnerable children wont necessarily have that sort of relationship with a parent and could get caught up in a church or political party (not sure what long lasting damage the BHF could do as any DD or SO signed would be invalid under the age of 18 anyway)

Personally I think it's absolutely inappropriate to be peddling religious, political or even charitable pamphlets an aiming to recruit minors.

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Meowmi · 11/08/2012 00:23

Pom I'm with you all the way, that was a brilliant response and one i might get one of my Dc's to use in the future.

We swear, and i dont chastise my dc's for using the odd swearword within reason, They, like poms Dc's, know when it is and isn't appropriate.
They hear far worse in school and out on the street and if that makes me a bad mother, (although i like to think that i'm a bit more laidback), then so be it!!

sostressedsostressed · 11/08/2012 01:02

It's Charity...be kind, mindful and have empathy please.

SPsFanjoSponsorsTheOlympics · 11/08/2012 01:04

I hear worse from 10 year olds in the street swearing because they think its all grown up because they can't do it at home.

Tbh I'd kick a chugger.

knackeredmother · 11/08/2012 07:42

I'm with Pom here. As long as dc know when swearing is and isn't appropriate what's the big deal?

JumpingThroughHoops · 11/08/2012 07:53

I don't have a problem with other faiths,I quite like JWs as they are on the whole very polite people (lets face in the face of the usual door slamming and general rudeness they must encounter daily I'm not so sure I'd be going round in such a saintly fashion). I do however, have a big problem with enticement.

I might complain about the BHF - they were a fecking nuisance yesterday.

Normally the mall is alive with PCSOs, couldnt see one yesterday

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Tee2072 · 11/08/2012 08:19

I agree that sometimes the correct answer is 'oh do fuck off'. No matter the age of the speaker of or to.

If charities want to be seen as charitable they need to stop mugging people in the street with clipboards and false smiles.

Nigglenaggle · 11/08/2012 08:48

Pom you are totally right! And think I might do the same (once DS can speak that is) you are not the one being rude and unreasonable - that person is the utter stranger who approached your young child without your permission.

Nigglenaggle · 11/08/2012 08:50

I do think charities are fine just quietly chugging and town crying though. They have to get money somehow

FermezLaBouche · 11/08/2012 09:00

Normal chuggers I can just about tolerate, as long as they accept my firm "no thanks."
In my city, though, it's weird. We have the usual uni-student, dreadlock-y type, who are generally pretty respectful. HOWEVER, on one particular street there often on Saturdays seem to be three or four blokes out selling "charity joke books." To put it frankly they are really dodgy-looking and can be really funny when you say no. Last week I said my usual "no thanks" and as I walked on the bloke gave a great big "oooooooooooooh" as in "miss high and mighty!" It did piss me off as I was polite! They also have a habit of walking along with you even once you've said no, before finally fucking off leaving.

I'd love to know if they are bona fide charity workers.

Nigglenaggle · 11/08/2012 09:19

If they are they need their licences revoking!!!

ChocolateHips · 11/08/2012 09:37

The best thing to do is say 'I don't like children/hearts/homeless/religion' and carry on walking

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