DH and Ds (14) do not like travelling or going away from home even for meals out. We always end up arguing on the day/ night before and having to cancel the trip/meal. For example, over the Easter break, I booked a weekend at the Chessingtons and on the morning of the trip, it rained. They did not want to go because of the weather but it was too late for me to cancel. We eventualy went after an argument and lots of begging from DD (6). They enjoyed the trip. Last year we holidayed in the UK. On the day of the trip, they refused to get out of bed, so , I loaded the car and left with DD. DH and DS followed the next day. They thought I would cancel the trip and stay at home. This year, I want to go abroad. I have not booked anything because I have been listening to their comments. I am beginning to feel resentful and I am greatly tempted to book one of the last minute breaks. Will I be unreasonable to do so?