To cut contact with my mother

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After her calling my 5 year old a 'little brat' in response to why she will only ever allow my DD to stay over at her house and not my DS

To whom did she say it to

I have recently stopped contact with my mother. After 30 years of dealing with her abuse and mental health issues the straw was her saying to my seven year old "just because your mother is a cow doesn't mean you have to be." I won't have her spreading her venom to another generation.

What.other history is there between you? Do you have many in your family?

I'm sorry that you are going through this experience. Is this a one off experience or is mother continously toxic.

I have recently cut contact with my parents and brother and its hideously painful. My brother recently threatened me with a knife and my parents think that I deserved to be treated in this way by brother.

Favourism is a hideously painful thing and its understandable that you want to shield your son.

She said it to me. She accused me of never correcting (smacking) him too.

Yanbu for.refusing to smack your dc at another adults request.

There must be a long history of toxicity between you.