to ask a personal question?

[Sallyingforth]

You're at home alone with your DP/DH. It's not time for bed but you feel in the mode for some loving. How do you let him know?
A special look?
A kiss?
A touch or hug?
or just tell him?

I sit in his lap and stick my cleavage on his face. He's a teeny bit aspie, he doesn't do subtle hints.

I just start nuzzling up to him and finding a bit to nibble.

If I gazed hard at Dhs trousers he would think he had dripped after a piss!!

I think you can't beat ' come on you old git give me a stiffy'

But then we are romantic.

Worra

"The kids are asleep.... both of them" magic words round these parts

I know you said it wasn't bedtime - but why does that matter?

Do you mean your DC's bedtime?

Begging?

I usually text him my schedule so that he can confirm with his sex secretary that he has time.

Jump on him, undo his trousers or just take him by the hand and lead him upstairs

...I love a 'lie down' in the afternoon.......

What I've been doing lately is to catch his eye, hold his gaze and then drop my eyes to his trousers. He soom catches on!

Oh dear God, that made my toes curl!

and not in a good way!

feckingnora that was a brave admission on here, i got flamed to wihtin an inch of my mn life because i exchanged a BJ for a big mac!!!!

As for initiating sex - he often falls asleep on the sofa, so i go and give him a bj - works a treat :)

"Go on then, if we must. Just don't disturb me, I'm reading"

'How's about a little bit of oobie-doobie-doo'?

Disclaimer : That wasn't remotely true.

Ah nuts - why do I click on these threads - I always end up feeling depressed

A secret smile. Kiss. Hold his hand. Whip his trouser zip down.

I send him a microsoft outlook meeting request. Works a treat. You have to mark it as private mind, or else the boss asks if he enjoyed it the next day...

Usually just ask, but occasionally give him a "special look" which is a bit like the look Puss in Boots does in Shrek, which he knows means I want either pancakes making or cunnilingus giving! We find it hilarious. We are a bit odd.

"Fancy a shag?"